September 6th, 2016 at 09:36am
I agreed with you up until the point you got to shaming people with Eating Disorders. Eating Disorders are a mental disorder. If it's alright to shame someone with an eating disorder, does that give us the right to shame someone else with a mental disorder?
Other than that I did enjoy the article. I'm glad to read an article on the matter. For one thing, we never hear about men being shamed. We just assume that everything is rainbows and unicorns for them. Second, no one ever thinks of shaming 'the skinny' after all 'being skinny is a blessing'.
If you ask anyone to describe what I look like, the first thing they usually say is small, short and thin, or whatever. Great, thanks! I trained hard to get the HEALTHY body that I have now. Something that does bother me is when someone points out how much I do/don't eat. I love food, I love pasta and Pirogues, chocolate, just like everyone else. It shouldn't bother other people what I am putting into MY body, or the fact I way a healthy weight and you can see my ribs. If I need to have a conversation with someone, it'll be my doctor.
So think twice before comparing fat shaming and fatphobia to the bullying slim people suffer, which is pretty damn horrible, but cannot compare with the humiliation others suffer just for having fat in their bodies.