I know what you're talking about. My mum and my dad are mostly accepting, the older people are less, just like when I turned vegetarian six months ago they all said that I wouldn't be able to do it. Most probably the wrong thing to say to a very very very stubborn person.
Anyways, I think in your situation that tell them that this is the way you are, and that if they don't accet that that you think that the only way for you to be who you want to be and not go crazy and paint the walls with thier brains is living with your Mum.
Do what you think is best for you, but think about it before you do, making rash decitions will get you nowhere.
Good luck. As Gerard Way would say, "Be yourself, don't take anybody's shit and never let them take you alive."
I say you should deffinately go live with your mom. If you continue living with them you're going to have to live the way they want you to be. It's almost like, "If you do this, believe this, wear this, I'll welcome you. Anything else is not acceptable."
Anyways, I think in your situation that tell them that this is the way you are, and that if they don't accet that that you think that the only way for you to be who you want to be and not go crazy and paint the walls with thier brains is living with your Mum.
Do what you think is best for you, but think about it before you do, making rash decitions will get you nowhere.
Good luck. As Gerard Way would say, "Be yourself, don't take anybody's shit and never let them take you alive."