Sometimes, I wish I could save you. - Comments

It seems your life is quite interesting :]

OMG. i went to write all the stuff the 1st person said, and i read that they already wrote it. damn.

but yeh, we must learn from our mistakes, until gabe learns, he'll never know.

Let him make his own mistakes. But let him know that you'll be there and most importantly, be there for him when everything turns to crud.

We all make mistakes. If you don't make them then you don't learn.

That's terrible and pitiful all at the same time.
To be honest I think he's going to have to figure out what kind of person the girl is on his own. You really can't force someone out of what they think is love. I'm sorry that's the only help I can offer...