Sexual orientation - Comments

i think we all get curious sometimes but it could all be a phase. I too have been raised in a christian family heck my uncles one the biggest prechers in miami. But that shouldn't conflict with your sexuality. I mean i hope i dont get sent to hell for this but think you should just but aside what your religin is and think about you. Can you see yourself kissing a girl. That's kinda close to what was happening to me but only out of curiosity. I can't see myself liplocking with a girl but I can see more happening with a guy(hehe.Meaning Im Stright) I think this is totally normal. Girls are just curious these days and can't help it but we will get over it. I have a friend that is bi in your shoes but she jumped to conclusions. She only likes tom boys. I think she counfused. And I think you are too. Just...think about you next time.
-D.J ^.^

You very well may be bisexual, but that may not be certain. During puberty your hormones go crazy [it's not just guys] and you may feel certain things that may not be your norm.

Basically everything you've said has described my feelings exactly. Even though I know what I am now, I still can't escape the feeling of confusion and I always wonder if what I'm doing is...right or different or what. I just don't know and it scared the crap out of me.

So.
You're not alone as far as confusion goes.
-right now I wish I could insert some kind of sincere smiley. but it's there in spirit. heh-

Good luck figuring things out.

Ugh, your mom sounds really...annoying. That's terrible of her to say. I'm a Christian but I've always thought that gays/lesbians/bis were people too. I guess I'm not a good Christian because I support gay rights, but whatever. That's just the way I think.

But yeah, I understand what you're saying. For a couple weeks now (and this will sound stupid) I've been...having a crush on...Demi Lovato D; I mean, I'm a total flirt and I really like guys. I'm not a lesbian. I don't like any other girls. But something about Demi, about her personality and her...just everything...is making me kind of nervous about that xD But I'm not a lesbian. I think it's normal to sometimes have crushes on other girls (or if you're a guy, other guys). Homosexual feelings are supposed to be normal as long as they're a phase. I don't know. I'm probably not helping. But I wouldn't worry about it too much.