what are you looking for? - Comments

I had what I wanted, but now it's gone.

I want someone who can actually have an intelligent conversation. I want a person who can accept that there will be other people I look at. I want a person who can tell when something's wrong and want to help, no matter what. A good sense of humour would be nice, although, I'd even settle for sarcasm. It'd also be absolutely brilliant if they could support the same football team as me... but I'll settle for anyone, as long as they don't support Port Adelaide or Hawthorn.

Change of feelings or something major that can't be fixed is all that would cause me to end it.

Oh, well, and if anyone ever wants me to change for them, then they'll be out on the curb so fast.

I'd want them to support me, no matter what I chose to do. I'd want them to accept that I'm going to 'like' or be 'into' other people during our relationship. Of coarse I wouldn't act on these feelings, but I'm going to find other people charming. I guess what I'm looking for is stability.

....I'd like if they had a job, too.

I wouldn't ever change myself for someone again. It's taken me so long to remember what and who i was before that, I hope to never go through it again.

The thing that would most likely cause me to break up the relationship is change of feelings, or them during something for me to lose my trust in them.

First: Grammar. It's a site rule.

Second: I want someone that I'm at list slightly physically attracted to. I don't think I'd be able to kiss someone that I could barely look at. =/ I want someone that I can trust and who is there through thick and thin. I want someone that will tell the ladies that chase him "I've already found the one" instead of "I'm taken at the moment." I want someone who will listen to me.

I can't stand it when someone gets drunk/high almost everyday of the week. Once a week or once a month is fine. And don't do it around me. And to end the relationship, they'd have to lose my trust. And I don't think I'd change myself for him.

Hmm...I would like someone who I can hold a conversation with, is open minded, and has a good sense of humor. That's all I can think of. The only thing that could cause me to end the relationship would be if they were super ignorant or something.