Cheating in relationships [ and questions! ] - Comments

1. I understand how tempting it is.... but don't do it...
cheating is never okay. When you love someone, you would never cheat on them.plain and simple.
how does it make you feel to be cheated on?
I know how it feels, and I hate it. all this self esteem I've finally built up after years of being broken ripped to shreds. my status: worthless.
physical or emotional, it's the same concept- leaving your bf or gf for someone else, sharing satisfaction with someone else when the only one you should share it with is your bf or gf. how is what you give your bf or gf special if you share it with other ppl that arnt him? (even if it's only for a night).

my day was great... :)

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Cheating IS both physical and emotional. Both are cheating, no doubt.

You just can't cheat without cheating.

1. Don't cheat on your boyfriend. Cheating is a terrible thing to do, plain and simple. You need to make a choice, who do you love more? Your boyfriend or this new guy? You can't have both and need to choose one. Cheating is terrible and you shouldn't do it. And just because your boyfriend cheated on you does not mean that makes it okay for you to cheat on him. Don't cheat on your boyfriend, simple as that.
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4. Beauteen by SCANDAL.
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1. Honestly, if I had a boyfriend that cheated on me, I wouldn't stick with him. It's over; end of story; fin. Wanting to cheat on him, feeling like you want to? That's a sure sign that it's not working out. You said it yourself: you feel like you should have the right to cheat if he did. Sounds like you want to hurt him, like he hurt you. It also sounds like there isn't a lot of trust in the relationship, which obviously isn't good. Faaak, I'm overanalysing this. ANYWAYS, don't cheat. Don't help someone else cheat (put yourself in the girlfriend's shoes and see how you'd feel) no matter how gorgeous, stunning or sexaaay they are. It's not right. -shrug- And it definitely wouldn't help your "image". A relationship is about commitment; if you don't have that, then it's not really a relationship in my eyes.
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1. Don't cheat on your boyfriend. You can't cheat without cheating. Whether or not his girlfriend is far away, if he sleeps with you or anyone he would cheating. How would she feel? How did you feel when your boyfriend cheated on you?
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Thanks for the advice everyone. I'm not sure what I want right now- I do know, however, that I don't want to hurt my boyfriend or hurt this guy's girlfriend.

I have a lot of thinking and things to consider.

I agree with Jewel Nicole completely.

And I also believe that if you truely love someone, you could never cheat on them... Or even think about cheating.

Yes, you may be attracted to somebody else - but if you truely do love your significant other, then you won't want anything to do with them emotionally or physically.

1. If you were dating someone, what would you be okay with them doing with someone else? That's how you have to think of it. Don't make excuses for yourself and cut corners.
2. Fine.
3. My new one. I Can't Resist a Man With a Nose Ring.
4. New Shoes by Paolo Nutini.
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just remember that nobody is perfect. people will still be attracted to other people even if they are in a relationship. because...well, lets face it everyone gets horny.
but if you have that love and respect for the person you are with, you wont cheat. just think it over

1. Well my gut instinct is don't cheat. Sure, he did and honestly, it's only fair. But, guys argue and only see things as right when they're the ones getting something they want. This may start an unneeded argument and may ruin something good. Plus, you never know, this guy may seem nice but you may be getting into something deeper. To me, it's too much of a risk. Though that's how my relationship goes; my boyfriend would be this way. Just follow what you think is best, weigh out your options, pros, and cons, and please be careful :)
2. Wonderful, thanks for asking :)
3. I figure I should be good to my boyfriend and say The Deeper I Get
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well i can almost say i know what you mean because i am in a relationship also but my bf is in the army like 5 states away. and i get offers from guys that are sometimes super hard to resist.

the guy you describe does sound yummy lol and i know it seems easy and fun and exciting.

but in the end you have to think of the person you love. would you want him to be doing the same withsome another girl? its simple, you have to treat others as you want to be treated.

and if you're still ok with cheating then somethings wrong. cause clearly you want something from this guy that your bf can't give you. and if you really want to cheat then just ask your boyfriend if you and him can take a break, then go have fun with that guy and after if you want then get back with your bf.

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1. I think cheating is cheating, but maybe that's because I believe you shouldn't have sex without having feeling behind it. I mean, if you think sex is just a thing you do, then I guess I see your point. Still, I wouldn't do anything with that guy. You'll probably end up feeling guilty, and think about that girl who loves him and is completely blind to all this.
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I am trying to figure out how to word this. Cheating is bad, it just is. You can't really say you love your boyfriend if you'de consider cheating on him, or even do it. And if he cheated on you then maybe you need to reasses this relationship. There is no such thing as ok cheating, emotional and physical is just wrong in my book.

What is cheating exactly? In my opinion, once you've crossed the friendship line then it's cheating. I think if you're flirting with someone it's cheating. Emotional and physical feelings are both cheating, in my opinion.

1. You shouldn't cheat on your boyfriend, break up with him if you feel the need to cheat on him. Just because he did it to you doesn't mean you should do it to him, you don't want to stoop to his level. Just end your relationship. And don't mess with a boy that has a girlfriend, just don't. If you do you're going to get a horrible reputation and you don't want that. Be with someone who can commit to you and that you can commit to them no questions asked.
2. It was alright.
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