Sorry for being a random commenter... but I think that she thinks that your older siblings are doing a good job, and she wants you to too. You should tell her that you're somebody else and it hurts a lot whenever she tells you those things. And that even though you're their sister, you can't be exactly like them. You have your own personality. I think that if she doesn't care about you at all, she wouldn't even bother telling you those things. Just show her that even though you're not a clone of your siblings, you can do a good job too. Not everyone who does a good job are exactly the same. Everyone has their own ways on how to do good things. If she doesn't really care at all then she shouldn't even be a mother, she should accept their daughter for who she is. But I doubt that, because every mother cares about their daughter. It's just hard for us children to see it.
But who am I to talk anyway... I don't know the whole story. But like someone told me, you're not the only one that feels like this... You just have to keep your head tall and be yourself. Thenno one can ever bring you down.
If she doesn't really care at all then she shouldn't even be a mother, she should accept their daughter for who she is. But I doubt that, because every mother cares about their daughter. It's just hard for us children to see it.
But who am I to talk anyway... I don't know the whole story. But like someone told me, you're not the only one that feels like this... You just have to keep your head tall and be yourself. Thenno one can ever bring you down.