Why does no one wait anymore? - Comments

There is nothing wrong with waiting, in fact I think if you wait for a few months to get to know someone well, you'll have a lot less emotional pain in the long run. Never feel pressured into something you don't want to do. If someone is pressuring you, they're clearly an ar*e and need avoiding at all costs. I'm not particularly religious but I think they had the right idea with the 'waiting for sex' thing. I'm not interested in any relationship so I get abuse too, but don't let it bother you. They're not worth the hassle.

Well, I'm waiting now lol I've been with one man willingly and one not so willingly and got pregnant both times. I'm not ready for anymore children atm. Apparently sex for me is just to create children....wow...lol But waiting is something everyoneshould do for the first time and having sex while not in a ralationship happens.. ( I KNOW) and its not bad nor is it good its just something that happens. I am waiting....so i dont get pregnant again buuuut if i had my choice i'd so find a 'casual' friend to 'cuddle' with

there's nothing wrong with not waiting either....but i just feel sad for those like myself who do want to wait, but feel pressured to compromise ourselves for something meaningless at times

I don't see a problem with waiting. I don't see a problem with not.
I'm almost 23. I enjoy casual adult relations.
I'm not interested in a relationship.
What would I wait for? O_o

I couldn't agree more.
I personally don't see a problem waiting. I know someone however, who just sleeps about. & i'm like 'why?' they will just end up with a name for themselves.