Assistance? - Comments

  • Once a cheater, always a cheater. You don't want to become one of those girls that takes her boyfriend back after every time, you know? But if you feel like you can't be without him, then allow him another chance, like a three strikes you're out sort of rule. Or maybe go on a short break and then see whether you can live without him.

    As long as you have your friends and family with you while you're on your break, I think you'll be fine :)
    January 3rd, 2011 at 08:01am
  • Darling i am so sorry you had to go through that!!!! I love you so much! Personally i think you should just talk to him. Try discussing it with him and talking it through without shouting. If he really does care about you then he should prove it to you. So you know you will not be cheated on again. You should for sure not let him just get away with it. It's not fair to you. But if you do want to give him another chance (which i think is only fair) you definitely just need to talk it through and tell him your trust for him isn't as strong. And he has to work for it to get it back.

    I love you Em! Please please please don't be too upset and I hope this helps :) I love you and if you need anything at all please just text!! :)
    January 3rd, 2011 at 12:07am
  • I agree with the just be friends theory, though this is my opinion. And like heartbeat states, you will always have the what ifs? in your mind. You dont want to have a relationship without any trust.
    January 2nd, 2011 at 07:17pm
  • Eh, I'm not good on this one. The first and last time a boy cheated on me with one of my friends, I kicked him where the sun doesn't shine and said some very rude things (yes I have a problem.) We obviously aren't friends anymore.
    Granted you're not me, so maybe you should talk to him about it and probably just remain friends. It's probably for the best.
    January 2nd, 2011 at 06:54pm
  • My ex-fiance cheated on me. She was the one who left, but I would have taken her back. And taking her back would have been the biggest mistake of my life. So I say run.

    But, that being said, I don't know your circumstances. I do know that most people who cheat will continue to cheat.
    January 2nd, 2011 at 06:45pm
  • Personally I would end things and remain friends. Y'know? It's like you don't want to be in a relationship, and have to keep wondering: What if he's cheating? What if...? What if...? But, if your heart says otherwise, then give it another shot! Like JustALittleGirl said, the decision is up to you.

    I know you'll make the right one. Love you. <3
    January 2nd, 2011 at 06:43pm
  • The word maybe will always appear. Maybe he'll cheat again, maybe he won't. Maybe next time you won't find out, maybe you will.
    It's all up to you. You're 15 (?) you're young. Not stupid, that's probably for sure, so it's up to you. You can always break up with him and still be friends. That ain't impossible, it's happened with me twice. So it really shouldn't effect your friendship relationship either way. No one can tell you what to do, except from yourself.
    January 2nd, 2011 at 06:37pm