How are we supposed to.... - Comments

This is going to sound snobbish and you'll probably want to hit me for this but here we go.

People tell me all the time that I'm gorgeous and that I have the boys chasing after me all the time, and sometimes that's true (that's where it sounds snobbish and breaking of my face is just fine). But in all honesty, I don't think of myself that way. I think I look like a boy and my acne is taking over. If I think I look good, I feel better and I find myself more confident in talking to guys. Once you start talking to a guy, he'll forget about looks and realize that you're pretty awesome gal. So, yeah you may think that it's personality that they need to look at, but it's also you that has to look at how you look. That sounds selfish and rude, but I found through personal experience, that if I dressed up and thought I looked pretty than I felt better about myself and I realized that boys were looking at me, and not jsut because I dolled up, but because I held myself high and mighty, just like you should. You're gorgeous girlfriend (i just looked at your pictures) and all you need is a little push towards that self confidence button and the boys will be all over you.

-it's late at night and I'm not sure if my brain is forming things that make sense so sorry if this un- understandable-

I did wrong when I was younger in likeing a guy for his looks ....wrong turn : (

Upon reading this, I took the liberty to look at your pictures. Girl, you are gorgeous.

Men are stupid. That's a well known fact. They're primal, nature says well formed hips and breasts on a slender frame are better for reproduction. When they want a serious relationship, men do factor in things like personality.

I think its the same thing than with girls.
Atleast I pay more attention to the cute guys in class over the fat, unattractive ones..

It's all psychological. A pretty thin girl is just appealing because his instincts tell him she's healthy.

I have a lot of problems with this concept myself. I can't really explain it to you because I don't understand it either, but I've asked a bunch of guys I know. They've all said that they're just naturally attracted to women like that, but just because they're nice to look at doesn't mean they want to be with them. At the end of the day, they want a real woman. How men work remains a mystery, but I hope that helps you out :).