Am I Shallow?/Sex/ Questions - Comments

Thank you all for your advise. I think that now I will not judge a man by his...girth...unless he doesn't know how to use it properly:)

xoxox.

Well sex with a guy who smaller is not that bad.. I have and it feels great

To be honest, preferring a fitter guy who happens to be "bigger" is actually totally natural (if unfair to the other guys).
It's your subconscious picking out an ideal mate (according to biology.)

Neither will do it for me, since I don't swing that way. XD

No, I wound never break up with someone because of something they can't help. I'm just talking about in general. The first guy I was with, we had sex before we dated and then with the second guy, well, it was a whim- we were hot for each other I guess. I'm not really proud of having sex outside of a relationship but I don't regret it either.

1. I think it is wrong, in a certain way. Although I'll be completely honest, I'm the same. It does not make you a bad person whatsoever. My friend, for example, has had four different partners and she's 16. Some were larger, so it always depends on the person. Some day you may fall for a larger guy, and you simply won't care.
2. I'm not sure since I am unexperienced, but I think it is. Size shouldn't matter. It certainly shouldn't if you love that person. And breaking it off based on the penis size would be ridiculous in my opinion. But if there's generally no connection in bed, then that's not a good thing.

1. It is wrong but it doesn't make you a bad person considering everyone has their taste.

2. Same as the above I suppose but only if you judge solely on that reason otherwise it's not wrong to have a preference it is wrong to toss or keep just with that.

Personally I don't judge most guys on weight on average I'd say I don't prefer heavy set dudes but it really depends what looks good on them some people can pull off the beer belly look, there have even been some "fat" people who just look good chunky and I couldn't imagine them looking good being thin. But other times it's like =/ ew.

Personally I don't like skinny guys it makes me self conscious like I'm too fat for them or I'll break them. But at the same time I don't mind them considering my b/f is like ultra thin >.<

im answering no to the first and am not answering the second at all. (kinda weird for me). i was IN LOVE with my ex, and he was a big boy. he wasn't HUGE! but he had a stomache, and sometimes it was hard to see passed that. its a natural thing to feel that way, but its shallow, i believe, to not give any guy a chance cuz their a little fat. u never know who u might fall in love with, so don't let your feelings about weight get to u too much though

I'm answering no to both of your questions. You can't help what you prefer no more than I can. I like guys who are in shape as well. Nothing wrong with that. Nor is the penis thing bad. I mean, you need to enjoy yourself in that situation, and if that satisfies you, then no one can judge you. But of course it's more enjoyable if the condom fits. That and it's far safer.