No one's probably going to read this, but I need some support. Please. - Comments

  • Oh f*ck /:
    Jeez, I am so sorry..just...wow.
    Darling, please, whatever you do, don't do anything stupid. I'm not the best on giving advice, but get it out y'know? Don't hold in it.
    And I'm always here if you need a shoulder to cry on<3
    and I'm so sorry this happened to you.
    June 3rd, 2011 at 11:54pm
  • oh my gosh darling that's awful </3
    So let me just say, I'm a b*tch like this, and I don't really think you should listen to this advice but,
    I just think that if she's awful enough to cheat on you like she did, then you shouldn't make her your problem. I know they always say, if you get slapped, turn the other cheek, but no. That's just totally unfair and awful of someone to do, so why should you be nice to her when she wasn't nice in the first place?
    If you really really still love her though, then I guess calm down, take a chill pill or something (and I don't mean that offensively), and break up with her. You shouldn't have to stay with her just because she's got suicidal tendencies. I'm sorry, but.. I don't know. I guess that's just how I feel.
    I really hope you get over that, though. <3

    -Ella
    June 3rd, 2011 at 02:59pm
  • I would take a small break from her and ask her why she cheated on you. Though given her bad family life, maybe it's best to break it to her gently that you felt betrayed at having her lie to you and cheating on you. But you do need to calm down first.. :)
    June 3rd, 2011 at 01:52pm
  • I'm very sorry.

    I'm unsure what you should do since she's in a bad position. Your parents have a point about collecting yourself or whatever. She shouldn't have cheated though.

    Anyway you two are in my thoughts, and I hope things work out for the best.
    June 3rd, 2011 at 01:21pm
  • Ask to be friends? Is she currently seeing a psychologist? I think it would be wise that you tell a trusted teacher or the school counsellor about the situation, as they can solve things. Even if you decide to stay with her, if she's emotionally fragile, it would be best for her to seek professional help.
    June 3rd, 2011 at 01:16pm
  • Oh I'm sorry love,

    I'm not very good at giving advice, but if you ever need anyone to talk to I'm here :)
    I'm praying for you guys <3
    June 3rd, 2011 at 01:11pm
  • Oh My God, that's terrible.
    :(

    I really don't know what to say and I don't want to offer you meaningless advice but I'll be sure to keep you guys in my prayers. <3
    June 3rd, 2011 at 11:45am
  • Thank you guys. You pretty much verified what my parents said.

    They're wisest, and so are ya'll. Thank you guys so much.
    June 3rd, 2011 at 11:34am
  • I will pray for you and your gf. If I was in your position, I would talk to her. Confront her about it. Don't get mad or frustrated cuz, me being a girl, I know that will set her off, too. Be calm and gentle. Calm her down if she gets worked up about it. Message me.
    June 3rd, 2011 at 11:34am
  • Wow. This is a lot for you to take in. But for her to cheat on you like that I would say just to dumb her straight away though after hearing what her family's like and her in general it seems also like a bad idea too.

    Example: My oldest brother went out with a girl for 1 year, got married , all that stuff. Bought her heaps of things than after he went to sea for the first 2 months of the marriage. (His in the nazy.) She cheated on him and divored him, though she still never says it to this day that she did we found out from others. They were only married for 2 months. This was 2 years ago.

    Your parents have a good idea that you should pick yourself up. Though about your love for her and the cheating I have no clue. She shouldn't have done that to you. I hope the best for you and that maybe this helped in a way.
    June 3rd, 2011 at 11:30am
  • I can't say what you should do or how to handle things but I will be glad to lift you up in my prayers.
    June 3rd, 2011 at 10:51am