I'm not really sure what's going on here, but, I think the best option is to talk to your friend. Tell her how you're feeling: that you're worried about her and also, tell her that the way she belittles your pain hurts you. I mean, you shouldn't ever compare pain. It's silly. Instead of downing your hurt, she should be there for you. You have to explain this to her because some people just don't understand how the little things hurt. I'm sure she doesn't mean to hurt you or anything.<3
I hope you feel better & everything gets worked out.<3
I hope you feel better & everything gets worked out.<3