You've been together for 3 months, that doesn't mean you're getting married [Rant Warning!] - Comments

oh btw, I totally agree with you people who talk about marriage and kids rght off the bad got some seriouse issues, and itbe annoying as hell. sry if my language offended u. No disrespecting! Awesome Writing by the way. Just by reading this. It got me all mad cause I can fee what your going through. Kind of been there, and, it sucks!

Hey the gurl could of had bad history with past boyfriends. so try talking to her.

As for the guy I know e is your friend, and not being a hater but he seems like an idiot.

That girl seems crazy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

good luck to you and your friend!

That sucks and I totally agree, three months is nowhere near enough to start thinking of the future with your boyfriend/girlfriend, especially if you're a teenager. Hell, I don't think even a year is enough.

I hate people who date for like 2 weeks and thing they will be together forever. Me and my ex were together for almost 2 years and never once talked about getting married or having kids.

v. Yeah, and for our other friends lol. It was odd though, he got mad because he invited her to go to a barbecue my family was having without asking me first. I asked him to go, and my other friend. He got weird because I said I'd feel awkward there because they'd be all over each other a lot. And I knew my mom would say no because she didn't want them to be like that there, and she doesn't really like his gf. So, his gf couldn't go and he said he "felt bad" so he backed out. And my other friend couldn't go so I was bored out of my mind. He always does this when she can't go somewhere. He says he'd feel bad and that he'll just stay at home with her. I was really mad that he took it upon himself to invite her to something my family was having

v. Hopefully it doesn't take too long. That would be... torture, for your part, I guess. Just having to put up with her. Ah, he's probably just playing the defensive boyfriend then. Doesn't want to hear anything bad about his girlfriend - honestly, it's understandable. He just needs to know that his friends are trying to help him.

v. Yeah. I know that in time, he will see how obsessive she is. I just hope it doesn't take too long. One of our friends has already tried talking to him about her and I did once because he did something involving her that reallllly set me off. He got so defensive about her when I wasn't even attacking her...

v. That's okay. Hm, I see. No offense, but he should hurry up and see the light. If she's going to act that way around him and be paranoid around you like that, she's obviously not the one for him. Especially if she continues acting the way she is.

Filthy tongue I know it's normal to fight now and then of course, but their clingyness is certainly over the top haha
kai- This reply is a little late on my part, sorry haha. No, I think you are right about her fearing a girl stealing him away and me being competition. After all, I feel the same way about her :/ She was really cool for the first month but then she turned into this paranoid, controlling person. She's always with him so I can't hang out with him and I see her as competition too. But I'm not one to compete so she's always with him :/

I don't think you sound rude, I feel the same way also. I'm not even dating her and I can't stand her anymore. It sucks because I have to be around her since he's my best friend. He can stand it because he's so blind about love. It takes him a long time to see the things that everyone else does

She sounds... incredibly annoying. And clingy. And paranoid. Maybe she thinks that some girl is going to steal him away. She might even feel a bit... suspicious? I dunno. You're his best friend and all. And you're a girl. It might mean competition for her. Or that's just my theory. I was never good at these relationship things.

Also on the point of him saying they're going to get married: I honestly highly doubt it's going to happen. While there are some couples who can say they'll get married in future and make it into something real, they only got a fifty percent chance. My mom said the same thing about my dad. He ditched her when he found out she was pregnant with my twin and I.

I don't mean to sound rude or anything, but how can he stand her? I'd get sick of her clingy attitude during the first month >_>

Thats normal, honestly --- couples who fight care at least they care enough to point things out.

v. Yeah, I know it's possible but if they continue their relationship like this, I can't see it going very well. They'd eventually get sick of each other because they are around each other too much. They fight every week, or every couple days and my friend even got mad at her once for not letting him go and hang out with our group of friends without her

It could happen, not likely but...it could happen.