Boy Help :) - Comments

  • vikibez

    vikibez (100)

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    Okay, here's the thing about how cool life actually is. I was the SAME way. I felt really weird and awkward because it seemed like EVERYBODY had a boyfriend and I was all alone. And unhappy. And I had never even kissed someone! And I was 15! The horror! And then my second semester, it basically just hit me: What do I need a boyfriend for? So what if everybody else had one? Would I really just want a boyfriend for the thing of it, or because I actually really liked the guy?? And so I stopped caring.
    And I kid you not,
    THE MINUTE I stopped looking for one,
    HE came along!
    Almost like magic! ;)

    I think that before you really start thinking so much about the boyfriend, you might want to start thinking about yourself. It's your confidence and allure that will bring guys in; not how you look or how much experience you have. And I am sure that you will have NO problems finding a guy who likes you for YOU! lol

    Ahem. That was sappy. Anyways. I'm a senior now. Said first boyfriend and I went out for 2 1/2 years :) and he's in ... a better place now. But I am glad that I found time to find myself, before I fell in love.
    lol
    Hope that helped!! :)
    August 18th, 2011 at 01:55am
  • Lucky Star.

    Lucky Star. (100)

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    You know you tell us not to laugh, but then you laugh.
    On to the problem. Just wait it out. When you find the right person, that it happens.
    Just like that.
    Most guys your age are extremely immature. I know, because I have three brothers.
    So just go with the flow until you meet the right guy.
    Nuff said.
    August 18th, 2011 at 12:13am
  • hands

    hands (100)

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    i didn't have a boyfriend until senior year, and honestly, i think i should've waited. a lot of boys in high school are pretty...stupid. of course, tons of adult males are stupid, but not as./:

    bleh.
    August 17th, 2011 at 11:50pm