walk in my shoes i dare you. - Comments

my family will always be disfunctional. thats a given. Ive learned to live with that. lol

there is always a light on the other side of your tunnel. life is never easy, espcially when we are losing one of our loved ones. i lost a cousin to cancer three years ago, she tuened 11 in january. life does get better, and until then if you believe in him, you just have to trust in god, and rely on your friends and family for support. they are the only ones right now who truly know how your feeling. express it to them, they will understand im sure.

v I hear ya. My family used to be so dysfunctional, especially on my mom's side. It took the better part of the last ten years, but they finally behave like normal people now, for the most part. >.< But it definitely adds unneeded stress to anything that's going on.

thanks :) yeah ill be ok im living day by day at this point. its just so hard when ur family is split in 2 like mine

I'm sorry to hear you're going through so much. I know what it's like when you've got so much extra stress to deal with that day-to-day life seems ten times harder.

Life is constantly changing. There will never be a time in life where you're stress free for good, where life just gets better and stays that way. You'll go through hardships and sometimes it will be one thing after another. There will be a reprieve. It will be temporary. But every hardship you go through will help you learn something, and it will make you enjoy life's sweetest moments that much more.

My thoughts are with your family. I know it's hard knowing that a close relative has so little time. I hope she's comfortable and happy and that she has shared some good with those closest to her. *hugs* And above all I hope you're okay. Don't be afraid to let other people in. It's okay to show you're hurting. I'm sure everyone in the family is, and no one is going to think less of you for it.

Hopefully she gets better. Referring to your title: If it concerns the rough patch you're going through then hun I've been in your shoes about fifteen times.