Really needing some advice.. Please help. - Comments

Bella,

I honestly don't think it's going to... I shouldn't have gone through his phone, I know that. I feel horrible for doing that, but I also feel like, I saved myself a little more heartache than I would have if we got married. This is... I don't know. I just feel like I've been involved in over two years of lies..

Grace,

Alot of people say it's not healthy and even I know it's not. I still am not sure on what to do, because I love my fiance with my whole heart, but I feel if he loved me, he wouldn't have lied to me like he did. And it's okay, I'm just starting to realize that shit happens I guess. :(

I don't think your relationship should work. Not only because he lied but because you went through his phone. It's just not based on honesty, so walking your separate ways is probably for the best.

That doesn't sound like a healthy relationship... I hate to say it, but if it was me I wouldn't stay in that kind of relationship..

I'm sorry that happened to you. :(