Okay, well I went through something similar with an ex. I just basically refused to be around his mom unless necessary. Our families butted heads and it caused a huge strain on our relationship. I put up with her for three years until he broke up with me.
It's one of those things that his mom is always going to be his mom. She is an adult so until you can stand up for yourself you just need to put your foot down with your boyfriend and tell him he needs to talk to her or else things will be difficult.
It's one of those things that his mom is always going to be his mom. She is an adult so until you can stand up for yourself you just need to put your foot down with your boyfriend and tell him he needs to talk to her or else things will be difficult.