I Really Need Advice - Comments

first of all, you're going to need to remain calm thoughout the entire thing. i've missed periods before, and haven't had a baby yet. it could just be that your body is low on some nutrient and don't have any excess blood to use at the moment.

on the other hand, if you are indeed pregnant, i would find a hand to hold and tell your mother as soon as you know. lying is only going to make it worse. i personally would put the child up for adoption, but since you are still a minor, your mother may choose to override any choice you make about the baby. be prepared for her to be maed. because she will. but then, she'll get over it. you're her child, and she loves you.

if you ever need anyone to talk to, love, i'm always here <3 <3 <3

I am 16 and me and my boyfriend have been going for 5 months aswell, and sweetie, protection, protection, protection. Since you didn't use it, I mean it could happen. I am personally against abortion. So adoption. I personally, cannot wait to have kids myself, so I can completely understand you point on wanting to keep and raise it as your own, now. Yet, and sadly, I know and have grasped the fact I am way to young to have such responsablitly. Sweetie, you have your whole life ahead of you. I'm not saying you're throwing your life away by having a child, if that were to be the case. Because having a child is certainly something to not take lightly. I am just stating, that maybe you want to experiance more things, live a little more. USE PROTECTION(: and be happy, and young, while you still can. Trust me, you do not want to be tied down to a baby at your age.

With telling your mom, if it were to come to such a thing, I'm sure she'd be upset and mad. Whenever overall, it's your body, and mostly your child. You can choose to do whatever you please. Of course since you live with your mom, of course, it'll be hard to deal and stand by the fact that it's yours. But she's your mom. I'm sure no matter what choice you make, she will help you through it either way. She will be mad, probably. Depending on the choice you choose. Probably in general too, right?!

Darling, things will be okay. Although they do not seem like it's going to be, it will. Cry it out, it's good sometimes. And be with your boyfriend, or someone! Try not to think too much about it, until you get the pregnancy test, alright, honey?

I wish you the best of luck, if you ever need someone to talk to, you are free to message me. :)

Be safe, and be careful. :)

Adoption.

I am still exploring my personal belief on abortion, so i dont want to tell you to do that, and then realize it was a bad decision later.

Lets face it, you are 15, way to young to keep a baby. Give it up for adoption with the good feeling of knowing it will go to a good home. And, you can always ask about an open adoption, where yuo are still a part of the childs life, but are not acting as it's parent.