Spilling the Truth to Him. - Comments

  • So... do you want to be with him or not? That is the eternal question. By the way I took the note, it seems like you're just getting it off your chest, but don't expect him to take action with what you said. As in, you don't expect him to break up with this Kate girl, to be with you.
    Which is good, because you're being supportive of your two friends being together and want them to be happy, but the question is... are you happy? Are you going to be happy when you continue to see them together after this? Some may think of this as self-centered, considering yourself, but in this case... I really think this is what you need to consider, before giving Austin the note. Because... you shouldn't say you'll be supportive, even if you will and put your own feelings aside, if deep down you still have this twinge of regret, or jealousy with seeing them together.
    I think you should really think about this, and reword the note. Because even if you still do go with your decision, the note may confuse him and second-guess his relationship with Kate. And if you still believe in what you put, you wouldn't want that to happen. Unless you've changed your mind and want him to be with you.
    These are just my thoughts. If you keep this same note and are 100% sure about what's there, you may want to add something or other saying how your support for them will always come before your slight feelings for him. Make that key statement(s) BOLD. I didn't really see the certain statement within what you already have. If you have that, that will make the note clear and not confuse him or make him second-guess things. You had slight conviction towards the end, but not enough that it reassured me that what you put you were absolutely positive on.
    Really THINK about what you have written, before giving it to him. That's the main thing that I suggest.
    August 24th, 2012 at 07:40am