Oh god. I'm sorry if this offends you, but cheating is NOT ok. ESPECIALLY when the person in question who cheated was drunk. That's being downright irresponsible for yourself when you drink, knowing that you have a limit, yet disregarding it and doing something you truly regret that involves hurting someone you claim to care about.
Even if he apologized for it and is begging for you back, it's still not excusable. Because the trust you had for him is broken and it's not going to be the same.
I just. I can't. I know people who blame their problems on the fat that they succumbed to the bottle and to me, that's just not a "get out of jail free card." If someone is going to put the blame everywhere else but on THEMSELVES, that's when you have to let them go, lest they keep repeating the same mistakes.
& NO, it isn't bad to feel satisfaction over his pain. It's his loss and he can deal with that on his own. You have no obligations to him at all, I assure you.
I'm sorry if this offends you, but cheating is NOT ok.
ESPECIALLY when the person in question who cheated was drunk.
That's being downright irresponsible for yourself when you drink,
knowing that you have a limit, yet disregarding it and doing something
you truly regret that involves hurting someone you claim to care about.
Even if he apologized for it and is begging for you back, it's still not excusable.
Because the trust you had for him is broken and it's not going to be the same.
I just. I can't. I know people who blame their problems on the fat that
they succumbed to the bottle and to me, that's just not a "get out of jail free card."
If someone is going to put the blame everywhere else but on THEMSELVES,
that's when you have to let them go, lest they keep repeating the same mistakes.
& NO, it isn't bad to feel satisfaction over his pain. It's his loss and he can deal
with that on his own. You have no obligations to him at all, I assure you.