Ever Look at your friends and think... - Comments

Oh, yeah I know how you feel. I look at my friends, hell, even people I've never talked to, and wish that I had a certain quality of theirs. Like Cee, I like the way clothes fit her body. She's shorter than me, and we apparently weigh the same, but I can't help but feel jealous. She has pretty and thick hair, while I have dull, frizzy, fine hair. She has nice eye lashes and nice hands... and my other friend, we'll call her Cynthia, she's super tall, which is something I've always wanted to be. I'm 5'4, possibly 5'5, and she's about 5'8. We're both 15. I think she's skinnier than me. She has such pretty hair and she doesn't have to wear makeup because her skin is almost perfect.

I'd go on, but this is only bringing me down to talk about it.

I think I have a weird shaped head. And I’m fat and short, and I have a damn gap in my teeth and I have acne. It could be worse, I suppose, but I hate not being really pretty.

Don’t get me wrong, I have my moments when I realise and/or feel that I’m pretty. I occasionally like my lips, eyes, and body, but I don’t always like them.

And this whole thing reminded me of this book called The D.U.F.F. (Designated Ugly Fat Friend) by Kody Keplinger.

I think most people feel that way at 15, I certainly did. But now at 22, yes I am completely happy and comfortable with my body (and no I am not a total whore).
It's a self assurance that comes with getting older.

I feel the same way. Like, I'm skinny. Really skinny. But not one of those skinny girls that are super pretty. My legs are weird because of my ankles and knees, so I walk funny. My face is shaped... odd. And I get pimples a lot. I wear glasses because my eyesight is shit and I don't want contacts. People don't think I'm pretty. Sometimes I don't either. But sometimes I do. I'm the ugly friend though.

I think I have a nice hair color, I have really long eyelashes which I see as a plus, and I have good qualities that make me prettier on the inside.

So really I'm with you on this. Lol.

I just had to point out "I don't swing that way but I'm all for gay rights" I chuckled when I read that >.> Anyhow, I feel the same way about my friends as if I'm "TheUglyFriend." It's just insecurity oh well. We learn to deal with it right? :/ Oh....well.