Ex's - Comments

@ Dauntless
I'm sorry you've been through it.
I used to go back to him so many times. I'm very sure I wouldn't go back to him if he contacted me again, but I'd really just rather he stay away.
It feels nice though to have people tell me I'm not making a big deal about it, when my mother makes me feel like I'm over reacting. Thank you.

I've been through this so I know what you feel.
Firstly NO. You are not making a big deal of this. Guys like that check up on their exs (the ones they could/used to control) just to see if they could get her back. Nothing's changed its psychological and that part of him that did those things to you is still there...

@ Ghost to a Ghost
Yes she knows, every time I'd get done talking to him I'd be upset sometimes I'd talk to her about it, but she's always been like this, my feelings aren't very important to her.
I told him last time I talked to him to leave me alone and I want nothing to do with him, and erased his number and everything, he tried one more time after that to talk to me, and now he is trying with my brother.
I'm sorry to hear what you went through with your mother and the guy she was with, I'm glad though that she got out of it and that you and your little sister and mother are okay now.
Thank you.

Does your mom know what he's done to you? It's not right that she's saying you should just forgive and forget, if she does know what he did to you.
You're not making a big deal out of this. You were hurt by him, and almost forgot about it and pushed it all out of your life, then he tries to get ahold of you through your brother. That's not right and someone should tell him that you want nothing to do with him. He has no right.
Something like this happened with my mom, except she kept going back to the guy. Not only did he beat her, but he also beat my little sister and I. He was Hell. However, when my mom cut all ties with him, life got better for her. She's now forgotten about him and has moved on.
I think someone should either tell him you want nothing to do with him, or you should just keep ignoring him. Keep your head up, hun. :)