My first kiss happened today, the story and a few question at the end! - Comments

You did nothing wrong, but I have to agree with @ Usako. He was probably, honestly, trying to get it in. If he's a friend of a friend you could casually catch up with him or add him on Facebook or something, but I wouldn't expect anything too serious from it.

I've learned that kissing isn't really a big deal and not to expect too much from it. I kissed my ex-boyfriend's older brother awhile back and nothing came from it, despite me liking him. In fact, the next day he asked another girl to Homecoming and we haven't talked much since.

But it's definitely not weird to think about him - I still think about every guy I've kissed every now and again. It's natural. Especially if it's your first kiss, you never forget your firsts.

@ Usako

Yeah I knew that too when he asked if anyone was home and stuff like that and I wouldn't have slept with him, the people I were with were really nice, the three guys that was from the military and I've never met before bought me a bottle of champagne as a birthday present, really nice and good guys :)

But yeah, I kind of knew when he told me that when he was in the military (maybe even the same one as the ones i was with) that he was maybe just looking to get laid or something since they were leaving the next day.

To me, you didn't do anything wrong. But my gut doesn't really like the guy you were with. Perhaps I'm just being overly modest and a prude, but when I read he asked if you had any alcohol or "if anybody was home", red alarms kind of went off in my head. If that were me, I probably would've backed off because where I'm from those are usually booty call/one night stand kind off questions. I'm not into that kind of scene.

As for kissing, there isn't anything you really need to know. For me, I just let it all happen naturally, haha. I can't really explain it. I've heard you should practice flirting from some people? I dunno; that's not my style at all. I just, as said, let things happen naturally.

And, no, it's not weird to think about him.