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I'm very happy to respect that, however:

1. You're spreading lies about me, and blaming me for thing that aren't true, publicly
2. You keep making references to me in your blogs. That means you're giving me the right to respond to these references. Especially since you've openly admitted now that you did infact mean me.
3. You did NOT extend that courtesy to me! When you commented on my blog and I ended the discussion by DELETING the blog you sent me an inbox message!

This is a two-way street. This discussing is highly inappropriate to have publicly, but I asked you to take it else where and you chose not to. I'm happy to respect your request, if you'd respect me back. But you're clearly not. Now, if you're done, then I'm happy to not respond, since this is a moot point. But each time you write something inaccurate or write a blog referring to me then you're giving up the right to decide whether or not I'm allowed to respond or not.

You can reply to this, of course, but then you're giving me the right to respond again since none of your posts have been simply "let's drop the discussion", but always adding more stuff to them which I have a right to respond to. If you want respect, you need to give it too.

I've already closed the discussion, but you keep bringing it up. That's on you and not on me. I'm also still happy for this to be taken to the privacy of PMs, but the last time I suggested it you denied it and wanted to continue the discussion here.

You're not respecting me, why should I respect you?

Ps. This is a discussion between two people, don't hide behind "people who can't stand me" or "have left Mibba because of me". That's irrelevant and completely without merit.

Oh Julia, this makes me sad but I'm going to hope that you'll keep coming back. Your friends on Mibba will always be here for you. Feel free to message me whenever you need, and good luck with everything! Happy holidays too

(You should come back in the New Year, that'd be the coolest beans. Just sayin' )

Aw, I'm sad now. I'm going to miss you a ton, Julia, and I hope I can talk to you sometime when you come on! We haven't talked in awhile. I hope your holidays are great!!

@ bella heart shawnee
I've officially confirmed that you have no respect for anyone. I asked you to stop commenting on my blogs, and all you do is keep lashing out at me. Forgive me for being persistent, but stop commenting on my blogs. I'm not the only one who can't stand you anymore. I'm not the only one who left Mibba because of you. It's my choice, but you brought it on. Deny it if you want, but remember - "I'm merely being honest."

You know what, there's no point. Please stop putting words in my mouth and blaming me for your choices. You're responsible for your own choices, and unless I've held a gun to your head or threatened you to leave Mibba that is not on me. Period.

Ps. If I'd said "I hate you, you're stupid" and you killed yourself then yes, I would feel guilty. I haven't been rude or said anything bashing, I've merely been honest and disagreed with you, so I'm not going to feel guilty for your choices. It's not hypocritical, it's incomparable.

You have a good day now.

@ bella heart shawnee
Maybe it's time to start acting your age. You directly quoted me, what - one or two times? The rest, you said I called you a whiner and whatnot, which I certainly did not do. So, yes, you manipulated my words. You always think that you're right, without looking at the viewpoint of others. I'm sick of you commenting on my blogs. So, yes, I think you do have the blame, because all you did was criticize me on here.

"It's not my fault you're leaving, it's your decision."
That's entirely hypocritical to what you said about the suicide situation. Am I right?
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You don't seem to understand: you never gave me advice. You gave a blank statement that, in your mind, you thought was "advice," but it was really just a slap in the face.
I'm speaking to you directly right now. I could care less if I get suspended from the website for this, because all you did was criticize me and judge others and I'm so tired of it. I'm asking that you stop commenting on my blogs. Now. You acted like I was a stupid child, throwing tantrums, but age doesn't matter. You view me as immature because I haven't experienced everything you have, or plainly because of my age. But I would say that you're just as immature as you think I am. You drove me off Mibba - off the only place I could truly call home. Thanks for that. Yes, it was my decision, but I wouldn't have done it at all if it wasn't for your rude comments on everything I posted. Thank you so much for ruining my experience on here.

It's not my fault you're leaving, it's your decision. Maybe it's time to take responsibility for your own choices and not blame them on others.

Also, please stop saying I've manipulated anything you've said. Directly quoting you is not manipulating words. It's directly quoting you. And I also don't find it possible for you to take some moral high ground when you're unable to speak to me directly but must instead leave imbigious messages in your blogs.

I'm sorry you felt like you were allowed to slap my face with your advice when I was down, but when someone's doing the same it's totally not okay. Doesn't make much sense, but okay...

D: Julia! Hina is gonna miss you. :( I love you. Shoot me a pm sometime and I'm sorry you're feeling this way. :(

Well good luck in life and your writing
I know you'll be missed dearly

@ bella heart shawnee
Actually, it was prompted by someone else. And it's a little hypocritical for you to say that, because he exact point you made when you talked about leaving a comment about someone's suicide letter: you'd feel guilty if you commented on their blog and they actually killed themselves.
And I'm sick and tired of your condescending comments on my blogs. I feel like I can't ever post anything without being judged and criticized by you, and I shouldn't feel like I'm being attacked. If you'd like to know, you're the person who prompted it. I would've been fine with all the other comments except yours. All you did was manipulate my words, and I'm not going to have an awful experience on Mibba because of you.

@ kitsch
@ notweirdbutunique

Thank you, both. I'll stick around from time to time - I promise!
(Is that an oxymoron? )

@ Katie Mosing
Point taken.

@ The Sun God
No, it wasnt about her stories. She just felt harrassed.

Adios. But your essentially leaving because someone said your baby is ugly and you didn't handle the criticism well?

Nothing is ever prompted by anyone else. We make our own choices.

Oh Julia, this blog makes me sad. Really sad. I'm going to miss you on the forum thread. You were the first and only person to review my story in the Mibba magazine and I could never thank you enough for that. I'm going to miss you in the staff forums as well.

I'm glad you're not deactivating your account. No matter what it is, I still have this tiny hope in me that you'll come around and pop by sometime.

I'm going to miss your dailyish blogs and overall, the fact that you were on Mibba as much as you could.
But I'm glad you aren't going to deactivate your account and hopefully I'll catch you at the right time
when I comment on your profile or something. I wish you luck in your endeavors and know that
I appreciate you, Julia. Don't be a stranger, sister. <3