Rant about "Haylor"; A.K.A. The relationship between Harry Styles and Taylor Swift that everyone is all worked up about. ( WARNING.LONG.RANT.) - Comments

The only thing that I'm worried about is when Haylor breaks up causing Taylor to write a song about Harry. I get that she uses song writing as a way of venting but I will not be enjoying the backlash and the media surrounding the 'Harry song' when this occurs. I know Harry is an adult and he can take care of himself and all that, but it's not going to stop me from being concerned about him.

That being said, I like Taylor and I like Harry, but not them together. Bottom line though, if Harry is happy, so am I.

@ Dragonborn

LOL I love you. That is all.

Every artist writes songs about their breakups and bad relationships though. Either that or their sexual endeavors or how pissed off they are at the world. I mean, how mature is pop music itself? It's not. So I don't understand why there's more judgement on one particular artist when she sings the same stuff everyone else does. For the record, I don't listen to pop, so if I'm wrong in this I don't really care. That's just my experiences and what I've seen in the pop genre. It's ALL the same.

@ slutculture

No dude, that's not what I mean. And they're not ALL depressing. You must not understand what I'm saying. No kid is going to feel the need to walk around in lingerie in public because of a song, it's the image of the artist that sings the songs she likes ( and I don't have kids for the record, I'm using an example ). Christina Agulaira writes depressing songs about fucked up relationships, while half naked. I don't even know why we're talking about role models because let's be honest, neither you or I are ones to talk about that, haha

I think it's wrong for ANYONE to say bad shit about someone online, especially since it's behind their computer screens and they can be all anonymous about it. If a 14 year old girl is trolling me online, I'm not going to say, "Oh, she's just 14. I expect her to be out of line." No. I'm going to confront the bitch because there is no excuse for that kind of behavior.

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Eh, I don't care that Taylor and Harry are dating. I'm not one of those fans who has to know who everyone is dating, so this is slightly news to me.

Taylor has had a lot of boyfriends, yeah. Do I think she's a slut? No, but that's not to say she isn't.

Do I think she's a annoying? Yeah, she's a cunt to write songs about all of her ex-boyfriends, or so I've been told. Her songs are over played and kind of dumb. Take the whole "we are never ever ever ever ever ever ever ever ever getting back together" song. She's not very creative...

I don't think she's a good role model. I think she's immature to use her past relationships as song insperation. All right, yeah, maybe if she did it once it wouldn't be as immature. But how many fucking times is she going to write some shit song about how badly her ex's have treated her?

Hello, kettle? You're most likely black.

Excuse me for the rant but ohhhh she get's me mad. But whatever, if she's with Harry, let them be. I just can't wait to hear the song she's going to come up with when the break up. I don't remember where I saw it, but credit goes out to whoever said her newest single is going to be titled "You're a British Dick"

That's basically what she does.

Excuse me, you've gotten me to rant about how much I dislike her

@ jakub.

Yeah, exactly. I have a friend that has a new boyfriend every week, I think she just wants someone to love her. It's unfortunate, but that's how some girls operate. I hope she finds someone she can be with forever, maybe this one's it.

@ slutculture
Taylor draws much of her inspiration for her songs from her past relationships. And?

When you really think about it, some artistes, all they sing about are relationships. The difference with Taylor is that she creates alot her songs from something that has affected her greatly (her relationships/love in general). And even though it's comical in some sense (and I must admit, I've laughed about it and joked about it too), there's really nothing wrong with that. Nothing at all.

@ Miss Vampire Is Dead
Yeah. Its scary.
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@ slutculture
Three guys in a year? That's not bad. And not every relationship works out. And it doesn't make it her fault they ended. I'm not saying you said any of that, I'm just saying.

And a lot of artists sing about relationships, whether they're good or bad, breaking up or getting together, etc. That doesn't have anything to do with her as a person, or how she handles real relationships.

@ jakub.
I agree. I think there are girls out there - and trust me, I know quite a few of them - that constantly need a boyfriend. I don't mean the ones that sleep with everyone and are "whores" about it, just the ones that need a boyfriend. Taylor seems to be one of them. I don't think that's wrong. It doesn't make her a whore, like you said, she probably just doesn't want to be alone.

@ Miss Vampire Is Dead
so you want her to write depressing, shitty heartbroken songs about how fucked all of her relationships are? I think if your daughter feels inclined to wear lingerie in public because of a song, then there's an entirely different problem at hand.

yeah but what I'm saying is that yeah it's a small percent of the fandom and there are some seriously messed up people out there.
please do note that the majority of the fandom has fans aging from like 4-18 and most of the fans are like 14. obviously not being in the right state of mind is kind of expected?

@ ladyschrei
well, considering she's dated like 3 guys in the last year and a half and none of them have worked out...? and the fact that a massive percentage of her songs in all her albums are about her [shitty or not so shitty?] relationships?

yeah, but I've acknowledged them, and every fandom has them so I'm not entirely sure why there is a need to point them out and "rant" about them just because they're a more well-known fandom.

I don't think Taylor's a whore. I just think she's someone who can't stand being alone. I mean, honestly, at first to me if seemed like she never gives her heart a break. But when I really think about, and realize how she operates, that girl ain't no whore.

She just doesn't like being alone, and will hang onto the first guy that makes her feel good. I mean, everyone likes to feel good. But the difference with Taylor is that people are watching her. I mean, it's not like Taylor is the only chick that has had a number of love interests. The difference is that's she's doing it in the spotlight, and when you're famous everyone has something to say.

I hope this one lasts, more for her than Harry.

@ raroman

Yeah. It's just appalling to see how bad they can be. I mean... I'm 16; I wasn't 13 that long ago but I don't remember girls my age being that mean >.>
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@ slutculture
What d'you mean by "...her perspective on relationships and how she deals with them..."? I'm confused with that.

"had some serious issues with all the men she's dated and I think that a lot of the 1D fans just don't want her to hurt Harry? and they may not be huge fans of Taylor either and feel that she doesn't belong with the boys?"

I believe that goes by specific fans. I'm sure there are some out there who believe like that, but then there are others who are just... completely the opposite. They believe they're destined to be with Harry or someone else from 1D, and no matter who that boy dates, his girlfriend will always be called a whore.

I mean, look at JB and when he was dating Selena Gomez. They called her the same names, sent her death threats, etc. To me, it's the same for 1D.

@ slutculture

Well, that's kinda what I meant. At least she isn't streaming nudes on herself online, or writing songs about her sexual endeavors. If I had a daughter I'd rather she was looking up to the way that Taylor deals with relationships, than thinking that she has to wear lingerie in public to be beautiful. It's a lesser of two evils kind of thing; they're both wrong in a sense but one of them is VERY wrong.

That's an interesting way to put it. I never considered that POV, but I don't understand why they can't just say, " I feel protective of Harry because I think she's going to screw him over", such as yourself, instead of saying "OMG SHE IS A WHOOOORE." If my mom thought my boyfriend was going to screw me over, she'd say so, instead of saying "Derr he's a jerk.".

I really don't think she's a whore. Like I said, just because you've dated a lot of guys doesn't mean you're a whore, it just means you haven't met the right one yet. You can't always marry the first boy you meet, that's just not how it works.

Oh and Glo Zell's reaction to Haylor is so funny :)

@ Miss Vampire Is Dead
Yeah.
I understand, I think its completely wrong, but they're still just immature girls. I'm not defending them, I'm just making sure both sides are understood.
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"At least she's a good role model for younger girls."
- not necessarily. Sure, she's a pretty respectable girl and has some decent morals, but her perspective on relationships and how she deals with them is *definitely* not something to look up to, and while you could argue that that is not important, for a lot of girls or fans, it is. And in that sense, she's definitely not giving the right message.

I'm not going to lie, I'm not a fan of Haylor.
I'm a huge One Direction fan, so yeah I'll admit, I'm massively protective of the boys. I think, for me especially, it's just that Taylor's had some serious issues with all the men she's dated and I think that a lot of the 1D fans just don't want her to hurt Harry? and they may not be huge fans of Taylor either and feel that she doesn't belong with the boys?

It's different for every fan but I think that it's a very small percentage of the fandom that doesn't like the relationship because they think Taylor's a whore, just my opinion.

@ raroman

I agree. Technology is making it easier to be anonymous. It's still wrong. And I used psycho because I had the lack of a better term, actually haha x)

"live long and find slash"... very nice, love ;)

@ ladyschrei

Wow this blog post has only been up for about 3 minuites and I already have a comment... xD

I like Taylor quite a bit, She's definitley more relatable than the Hollywood pop divas ( *cough cough* Katy Perry *cough cough* ). At least she's a good role model for younger girls. I never heard anyone call her a whore until now, now it's like, everywhere.

Exactly. A lot of these bands wouldn't be that bad if it wasn't for the psycho girls that listen and become total monsters about it. And I was actually a big fan of the Jonas Brothers when I was 12 or so, I stopped listening because I felt like I was going to be instantly labeled as one of "those" girls. I didn't want that. I don't understand why they must act like this. WHY.

Just let the couple be. And I admit, they are kinda cute together =3

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