I don't think you'll ever necessarily move on, but come to a point where you're at bay with what happened. Just realize that wherever they are is a better place than here, and you can have another child when you're ready to let yourself and things come together. I'm really sorry for your loss and can't imagine what it'd be like to face that kind of pain or even attempt to come to terms, there are people and support willing to help as much as possible. I guess, in the way of coping, is take up a hobby like art, or working out, or music, anything to release stress that you can't say through words, and time will heal, and that's my best advice. :{
January 11th, 2013 at 04:36am