Friends' Exes - Comments

@ mia san mia.
I can understand her being annoyed, but telling me never to speak to her again and ranting about killing me seems excessive.

@ ShelbehRaexD
Like I said, I met her when they were going out (for 3 weeks, over a year ago). Anyway, she's clearly never speaking to me again, so I'll just have to move on. Honestly, I thought she was the kind of person who would hear me out instead of just calling me a slag.

I think she's being a bit of a hypocrite. I mean, you went out with him first, so is she not breaking the 'girl code' by going out with YOUR ex? You two had a history before she was ever in the picture, therefore, she has no reason to be mad. Hurt maybe, but not overreacting as such. Besides, being on Facebook and making herself seem like the victim isn't a very mature way to act. Besides, if she had multiple opportunities to tell you that she didn't want you to hook up with him and she didn't, any objections are pretty much null and void on the basis of hypocrisy.

But if you were with him before you met her and then became friends with her, why is she mad that after they broke up you were with him again when you've known him longer than her and you have a history? I'm just confused. I understand she's hurt because she feels like her friends shouldn't date her ex, but he was with you before you met her so it's really not that black and white of a situation.

@ mia san mia.
I met her when they were going out (possibly, it was only for 3 weeks)

If you had a thing with him before they got together, wouldn't that mean she broke the "girl code" by dating him after you had already been with him?