It's not him, it's me - Comments

@ Insane Gravity

I appreciate it I think that it might help to talk to someone, not jus for relationship purposes but overall.

@ OctoberA7X

I'm so sorry to hear that! I've never talked to someone professional before, but once I became aware that my own personal problems were starting to interfere with my life and ability to have healthy relationships, that is when I consider seeing some. I am no-way saying this is the case with you, it is just something I have recently thought about for the first time in awhile and I thought I might see if that it might give you something to think about as well. I can totally understand any apprehension about seeing someone again :C I'm sorry that something negative happened last time to you. I would be nervous too, if the sanctity of confidentiality was breached and not appreciated or upheld.

I guess my other piece of advice would be what I can offer you. I send you heaps of support and well-wishes from my end!

@ OctoberA7X
You're welcome (:

@ Insane Gravity
I'm very nervous about the idea of talking to someone professional. I mean the last time I tried that person didn't really grasp the concept of confidentiality

@ ThatGirlThatWrites
You're right! I've been open before to him and I can do it again! I really appreciate your comment :)

I think communication between a couple is one of the most important factors in a relationship, personally. I don't think it would be a bad idea to talk to him, and tell him how you feel. I'm not saying you should emotionally vomit on him, but you should definitely let him know. He seems like he really cares about you. If you think it's really making a hindrance on your relationship, maybe you should consider talking to someone professionally about your insecurities? Just a suggestion.

Anyway, best of luck!

In my opinion you need to be honest and open with him, tell him how your feeling. He might have went through the same thing before and can help you in any way. That is what a loved one is supposed to do anyway, they are supposed to love us and help us through hard times, whenever necessary. So don't be embarrassed, be more open.♥

You helped me with the same type of problem. Sometimes you just need someone to talk to, to help you rationalize things. You know you can message me at any time. On a happier note I am glad he is planning to take you on a trip! I am sure it will be a lot of fun! I'm not going to sit here and say you will get over your insecurities because you may not, lord knows I haven't, but hopefully you can learn to deal with them, refrain from taking it out on him. You know I am working on the same thing. Message me anytime!