Dating for the Introvert. - Comments

@mia san mia
Right? I just deleted my profile on the dating site, but not before this one guy got my number. (mistake) and now he keeps texting me and he tells me im the slowest texter ever. (Dont really wanna text him.) and then i told him that that was true im a very lazy texter and then he was like well then, you should call.

I had litterally not even 30 min before just told him that i was diagnosed with a throat infection today. I was like dude seriously? Hes already tried to get me to come to his restaurant. Thank god i lied about where I lived on that damn thing. :D

I don't date because it doesn't appeal to me, but my sister tried online dating this year and some of those guys. They are really pushy. One was asking to come to her house two days after he first contacted her. Online dating sites are tough since the assumption is everyone on there is looking to date and people think that means they can ditch the whole getting to know someone step and just jump right into a relationship.

@DamnYouJackSparrow! Hahaha, Im so happy that someone else feels the same was as I do when it comes to this whole dating thing. I tried dating once, he was my first love, we had a baby together. yeah now I have a beautiful 3 year old and he has 3 baby mamas and on the most wanted list. Hoosha! I pick dem winners eh? ahah.

But yeah, I havent talked to the shy guy in awhile. I think i might shoot him a text :D

Oh my God. I thought I was alone in this world. I thought there wasn't anybody like this. I thought...

OH MY GEE THERE'S SOMEONE LIKE ME!!! (that rhymed )

All this. Me. All this is me. I'm completely introverted as well. Human contact is a struggle for me. I rarely make it unless someone gets me out into the world and interacting.

And dating? Um, it doesn't happen for me. Because of past events in my life I'm now a snail when it comes to relationships and I like them slow. I'm also very passive-aggressive (which I'm trying to work on) so when something's going to fast I just meep like a doowhopple and shrink back into myself in the hopes that I'll get some space.

OH MY GEEZERS I MET A GUY LIKE THAT ONCE!!! It was at a military ball I went too and we started talking and he kept asking me questions like if I had a boyfriend and what I was into and what I liked in a guy. That was major red flags for me so I said I wasn't interested in a relationship and then he goes "But could you give us a chance?" Um, no. There is no 'us'. I don't recall there ever being an 'us', unless someone obliviated my ass. He was VERY pushy and I can't stand pushy because it's like being backed into a corner. So, against my better judgement, I gave him my number, which I shouldn't have done because he is one of those people that constantly texts and if you don't answer for a while he's like you there? And then the day after, THE DAY AFTER, that dance he texted me and asked if I thought about what we talked about. ANSWERS STILL NO BUDDY YOU CAN ASK ME TEN YEARS LATER AND IT WILL STILL BE NO. I tell him again that I'm not interested and not ready and then he says "That's fine we can take it slow." I felt like he didn't even read anything I sent. And then at school he gave me a flower (which I threw in the trash later) and then when I told him again that I wasn't interested and the flower made me uncomfortable, a few days later he gave me another flower (that I broke in half because it had a long stem and gave the flower part to one of my friends). But then my phone got taken away and I didn't tell him that and now he doesn't talk to me so it's all good.

So, that was my rant.

I FEEL YOUR PAIN. Just ugh. Guys that want to jump into everything set my teeth on edge. The shy guy seems promising though. :)