I Deny Complements and I Feel So Alone - Comments

  • kili the dwarf

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    Don't let other people getting attention deter you from believing you aren't a beautiful girl.

    Think of it in this sense, everyone is attracted to someone.
    Which mean you just have to find that someone and he'll come.
    August 1st, 2013 at 07:57am
  • piercethevie

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    @ Selina_Kyle @ naruto uzumaki @ kitsch
    you guys make me smile. thank you all so much<3 i appreciate it you have no clue. it's just hard for me right now bc all my friends have had guys come up to them and talk to them and i'm just...there.
    August 1st, 2013 at 07:54am
  • kitsch

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    I'm 18 and I've never had a boyfriend.
    I've only been hit on once and it was the most awkward, uncomfortable conversation I've ever had.
    You're gorgeous, darling, and I'm just a stranger on the Internet so I have nothing to gain from telling you the truth.

    I also know someone who had the same issue as you where her sister overshadowed her. Now that her sister is married and moved, she's the one getting compliments and hit on. Hang in there; there's more to life than boys and bands. . .
    August 1st, 2013 at 07:46am
  • kili the dwarf

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    Girl, I know exactly how you feel. Like you are me when i was in high school, for freaking real! No joke.

    I only had like three friends in high school, three and then two had to go to a different school, so I only had the one. And senior year, she and I had our fall out and completely stopped talking. It really was awful, just ugh it makes me sad to even think about it.

    Anyways, about the whole pretty/beautiful thing. I was you, guys never looked at me in high school, never flirted with me, never even held a damn door open for me. I was that quiet weird girl that sat outside of the library during lunch.

    I know it sucks, but I didn't even get my first boyfriend until I was 18 about to be 19. But that does not mean you are not pretty or beautiful or cute or adorable. Because I think you are such a beautiful girl, I honestly believe that.

    And after my ex and I split up earlier this year I constantly believed I was ugly and not pretty anymore, but then I started believing people when they told me I was beautiful. Easier said than done, I know, but trust me when you start believing it more people will notice you.

    I don't know how it works, but when you feel good and feel beautiful, it shows and people are draw to that confidence. And it won't take long for you to find someone cause girl, you be gorgeous! Haha!

    Okay, so sorry for like babbling on in this long comment, but I felt a connection here and I wanted to share that with you. If you ever want to talk or anything like that just send a message my way.

    =)
    August 1st, 2013 at 07:45am
  • deactivatedError

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    Hey you seem like a fascinating gal and don't sweat it if the guys aren't flocking to you yet they'll come around eventually all guys do :D
    August 1st, 2013 at 07:45am