I know that you want your privacy, and that it's hard to deal with these kind fo things, but I can give you advice, the same one's that I was told a long time ago- 1.Don't be afraid other people- Sure, there's many things to fear, but the fact is there's always some idiot to badmouth you, and you don't have to take it personally. If it hurst to listen to the shit they say, try to think why they're saying that. They really just might be jealous fo you. 2.Don't let them bright you down, stand your ground- There's always gonna be hardships in life, but know you don't have to face them all alone. You may have family that is kinda judgemental, but when you're feeling down, think about all the great things you've acomplished in life. The people that love and support you. It's great that you've stopped, and believe me, it eases pain a lot more to talk than to cut. I know you're a strong wilded woman, who always gets over every obstacle that get's in her way :) I remember when I first met the little girl who was afraid to say her mind. But I've seen her grow up and became more gorgeous and stronger every single day. The truth is that if you're afraid of something, you feel like hiding from the world, changing the person you really are, then think...Face the shit head on, and be proud of what you are, because you're the wonderful girl that always has the right answers, supports when she has little time, cares when someone's hurt. And the list goes on. It must be hard to deal with a selfish little sister, that always take's her anger out on you, but believe I know what it's like. Threre's bount to be always some shit she can blame on you. Call you fat, lazy, inefficient, whatever...Show her that you won't sink as low as her. Be superior, don't be like her. Just let the bad things in from one ear, and out the other. She's just a envious brat that can't handle the fact that you'v actually done something with your life. I hope that you're not upset that I posted this in here, but I just want you to know that I'll listen whenever you need. These times are hard as hell, but thats when friends stick together, help each other out. That's what you taught me over the years :) You have so much ahead of you, and I'm so glad that you've told me some of the things that bother you, I just hope that I've been able to help you. I could blab all day why cutting/suicide is wrong, but I don't think that solves anything. I want you to know that I'm not gonna lecture you for thinking so, but to tell you that I couldn't be happier that you've opened up :) It's a big step, and it makes my cry from joy that you've finally said what bothers you, all of it :) I don't know if this is something that you wanted for an answer, or that I'm the one who read it too, but I hope it still helps a bit. Just know that you're one special person that is a big part of manys lives, and a big part of mine <3 I didn't wanna upset you with this, but I hope it helps, I know that when I'm feeling down, I just have to read the textmessages you've sent, and I feel a lot better. And it's finally my turn to support you ;) Try to hang on <3
Sorry. My computer starts to play trick on me again, so it posted two commets accidentally :) But anyway, I hope you got the point of that XD Sorry it's a bit long :) <3
1.Don't be afraid other people- Sure, there's many things to fear, but the fact is there's always some idiot to badmouth you, and you don't have to take it personally. If it hurst to listen to the shit they say, try to think why they're saying that. They really just might be jealous fo you.
2.Don't let them bright you down, stand your ground- There's always gonna be hardships in life, but know you don't have to face them all alone. You may have family that is kinda judgemental, but when you're feeling down, think about all the great things you've acomplished in life. The people that love and support you.
It's great that you've stopped, and believe me, it eases pain a lot more to talk than to cut. I know you're a strong wilded woman, who always gets over every obstacle that get's in her way :)
I remember when I first met the little girl who was afraid to say her mind. But I've seen her grow up and became more gorgeous and stronger every single day.
The truth is that if you're afraid of something, you feel like hiding from the world, changing the person you really are, then think...Face the shit head on, and be proud of what you are, because you're the wonderful girl that always has the right answers, supports when she has little time, cares when someone's hurt. And the list goes on.
It must be hard to deal with a selfish little sister, that always take's her anger out on you, but believe I know what it's like. Threre's bount to be always some shit she can blame on you. Call you fat, lazy, inefficient, whatever...Show her that you won't sink as low as her. Be superior, don't be like her. Just let the bad things in from one ear, and out the other. She's just a envious brat that can't handle the fact that you'v actually done something with your life.
I hope that you're not upset that I posted this in here, but I just want you to know that I'll listen whenever you need. These times are hard as hell, but thats when friends stick together, help each other out. That's what you taught me over the years :) You have so much ahead of you, and I'm so glad that you've told me some of the things that bother you, I just hope that I've been able to help you. I could blab all day why cutting/suicide is wrong, but I don't think that solves anything. I want you to know that I'm not gonna lecture you for thinking so, but to tell you that I couldn't be happier that you've opened up :) It's a big step, and it makes my cry from joy that you've finally said what bothers you, all of it :) I don't know if this is something that you wanted for an answer, or that I'm the one who read it too, but I hope it still helps a bit. Just know that you're one special person that is a big part of manys lives, and a big part of mine <3 I didn't wanna upset you with this, but I hope it helps, I know that when I'm feeling down, I just have to read the textmessages you've sent, and I feel a lot better. And it's finally my turn to support you ;) Try to hang on <3