Being overweight sucks! Low self-esteem! - Comments

Hey, I know you don't know me or anything...
But honestly, you or a parent or anyone should have a talk with the teacher about things like that as it could be considered triggering to someone who has suffered with an eating disorder. Things like this just really make me very mad.

I have been diagnosed with anorexia and bulimia. My problems with bulimia started when I was 9 years old. I have been lucky enough to have the strength to be in recovery. I say in recovery because I don't think you ever truely get over it. It just gets easier to control. You still have 'fat' days and destructive thoughts. However, once I started eating regularly again it was hard for me to be able to eat normally. I actually started over-eating, as a result from all the time I had deprived my body of food.. I'm overweight and I think I look cute as fuck! Most guys don't want women who are thin as a stick. I can honestly say that with me being overweight, I have been hit on by guys in well-known bands.. They didn't even look twice at my underweight friend. You look amazing. You're beautiful and there is nothing wrong with how you look. As long as youre comfortable with yourself, guys will flock to you. Good luck.<3

You're beautiful. ♥ Don't let anyone tell you otherwise.

I think your very pretty! It makes me sad to think of people being self conscious about their weight because if the views from others. Be confident and live yourself. Fuck what anybody else has to say about the way you look. Your a very pretty girl and um sure there is a mister right just around the bend:)

You're so pretty! Ignore them, you'll find someone who loves you for you and your weight should never stop you from being happy :)

... I'd bang everyone who has commented on this blog. Like seriously.

But I'd bang you first, Kukilein:) Ever thought of being with a girl? Just curious. >:D

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My lesbian side came out when I saw a picture of you and DEAR FREAKING LORD! You're beautiful! Can I marry you? Like seriously?! You're really freaking beautiful!
Screw what haters say! I think you are fucking beautiful!

First up, you're absolutely GORGEOUS and if anyone ever tries to tell you differently, they either have poor eyesight or a very tiny brain.

Personally, I'm overweight too and I can totally understand where you're coming from. I felt the exact same way as you when I was your age, because I barely had any guy friends, let alone a boyfriend. Hell, to be perfectly honest, I didn't even experience my first kiss until I was 18. I met my first boyfriend online, through a mutual love for the same band... He lived interstate and we got to know each other for 6 months over the internet and through phone calls, then I made the big decision to go meet him in person and it went well, even though he'd only seen maybe 3 photos of me (again, because I was so damn insecure about my weight). But it turned out I didn't need to be, because he was attracted to me just the way I was.

As xMandiblesx said, there is guys out there that either don't care about a girls weight or they simply like plus size girls. Hell, it's taken me a while but I've finally found the perfect guy for me and he loves no matter how I look. I've actually gained more weight since we've been together, but he's still 100% attracted to me and loves me, for me... regardless of my weight.

And you will find the same thing, hun. It might take a while to find him, but he's out there waiting for you. All you gotta do is remember not to be afraid to go for it when he pops up... don't let your insecurities take over and try not to second guess yourself. Confidence is key, after all. You're beautiful, inside and out. Never forget that.

And you're not alone. There's plenty of us out there who have the same insecurities and worries, so if you ever need to talk or need advice, don't be afraid to ask

Girl this is the first time I've really seen what you looked like on here. Let me first just say that before I ever saw your physical appearance, I thought your personality was lovely. Now that I've seen what you look like physically...I think that's beautiful too. I mean honestly...I'm overweight myself. I weigh about 260 and have for quite awhile. I'm a bit tall but not much.

I feel self conscious about my weight but I've also been married for seven years to a man who doesn't care what I weigh. You can and will find someone who doesn't make weight an issue. There are men out there who like a girl with some meat on her bones and some curves. Honestly...I don't think you look that big in the pictures. Of course I don't know the crowd in Denmark or how their views on overweight people are. Here in America there are a lot of overweight people. Sure we still get ridiculed but it's becoming more and more average. Overweight people are everywhere.

When I see a person...I don't even judge them or even take what their size is into account. People should be able to choose what size they want to be without people saying stuff. Of course people just make fun of people of all sizes. I've seen regulation skinny girls get called names before. Sometimes people make fun of people for just random things that make no sense lol. You're beautiful in my opinion and you don't even look like you weigh all that much. My family is also bigger and bigger boned so it's tough for me to lose weight.

I do get insecure about it a lot because there's this voice in the back of my head that tells me, "You'd be gorgeous if you weren't so fat." But then again I know I shouldn't listen to that voice and base my self worth on my jean's size. It takes a long time for self acceptance but if you keep trying to stay positive about what you like about yourself...it will get easier. If ya ever need to talk just message me. =)

You're not bad! Yes, you do have a big build, but you're not that fat. Plus, you're pretty.

I have realised that a lot of men could care less about society's beauty standards. At the end of the day, we like what we like, whether it's within the norm or not.

@ Kinki Jinki
You're so right ;)

@ Lucasluc
Haha awh well thank you!! I really appreciate your comment! :)

If I lived in the same state as you,I would definitely be your boyfriend.Your body shape and weight are perfect the way they are and you have a pretty cute face as well lol :) and I bet you have an extremely friendly personality as well lol. :) I wouldn't mind being your internet buddy!

Maybe you just haven't met the right people
I really appreciate curves

@ HerNameIsAlice
Yeah exactly, and it really sucks!

@ Immoderate;;
Oh yeah, that's so nice of you! Haha jk.

@ SorryNotDeadYet
I know how this "feeling liek the third wheel" feels, and it's far from nice! I think the only reason why the people in my class are like they are, is because they're most likely all +21 years old, which make them at least a little more mature.

@ FallBackDown
Oh don't apologize hun! :) First off, I'm happy for you (even though this might be a long time ago, but still, haha). And yeah I hope I find someone, but some days I just feel like every one is disgusted by me, you know?

@ Kinki Jinki
Unfortunately people aren't like that in Denmark.

@ PoeticMess.
Yeah. I have fat genes as well, which pretty much sucks because I'll never be able to be a size 6/8 (Small/Medium) which I kinda wanna be. Or well I can get there, but it's almost impossible!
And yeah I feel that way as well, even though I really wanna be skinnier. But yeah, I want people to want me the way I am now, and not by the way I CAN be.

@ Kukilein.
That's just sad. It sucks! I feel like that's automatically a law now.

You are really beautiful. I have the same issue though. I have a cute face (sometimes), I'll admit that, but whenever someone compliments me, I just feel like it doesn't matter how "cute" I am, all boys see is the amount of fat I have on my body.

Like you, it's really hard for me to lose weight. According to my mom, my dad's entire family was big and that's where I got it from. It's terrible to feel this way because some people were born with skinny genes and others with fat ones. So when people tell me "you have to work to be skinny", I feel like that's unfair. Of course it is and life's unfair too.

I don't know if you feel this way, but another reason I've stopped trying to be skinny (and actually started eating) was because I wanted someone to like me for the way I am, not the way I should be. If I were to be skinny, I'd be the same person.

You're gorgeous, trust me. I'm overweight myself and I don't have trouble with the men, most of them admit to finding the extra pudge sexy

Sorry I saw this blog that someone recommended and I thought you were so incredibly brave to post this that I just had to comment!
I went through exactly the same as your going through now, without the English lesson, but the issues were exactly the same! Hell I thought I'd see the world end before I'd get a boyfriend because of my weight. Now I lost a bit, but god not as much as I'd want, someones days I still feel ugly. But I thought I'd offer this little bit of advice. Keep going, keep smiling, surround yourself with amazing friends and eventually a guy will see you and fall hopelessly in love with you. I never thought it would happen, and it happens when you least expect it!
But I betcha one day a guy will shock you and see your beauty, but I think you've gotta see it yourself a little bit as well ;)

I totally understand where you are coming from on this I, myself weigh 273 pounds and it makes me just wanna cry and do something about it i used to weigh 225 but the medicine the doctor put me on made me gain weight so fast an i cried over it. to me it makes me feel like the third wheel at a party that no one wants to hang out with the fat kid but my friends hang out with me i don't know why honestly but they do, And I think you look beautiful just the way you are. <3