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Ohppp. I'd definitely feel slighted like A, no questions about it. Really though, people use the whole "blaming others"
thing to exert superiority (a false sense of security really) and try to prove "I AM RIGHT, BOW DOWN TO ME" and
it's very exhausting. I don't like being around people like that, much less trying to mediate around their antics.
She's grasping at straws, that one.

@ kitsch
No, she legit thinks she is right and he is wrong. She has this like...brain blocker thing going. Where she sees things one way but it isn't that way. A is one of our bests. We didn't realize it until a few months ago, but he's so dedicated and he was crushed to hear what she said about him. He said these exact words "I want to punch her in the mouth." And do too.

J really must feel insecure to be blaming another member of the group for her lack of group effort and dedication.

I hope things work out with a unanimous vote to have her out of the group. She's bogging the whole thing down and it's not even super stressful crunch time yet.