I'm so sorry this happened to you. How tragic. :( I can honestly say through experience that talking about it with a therapist is the only way to come to terms with it, feel all your emotions, and get past it in time. It won't go away, but it'll hurt less if you take care of yourself. Please don't blame yourself for this happening. Your EX is sick and violent. You didn't push his buttons, and arguing with someone is normal. What's not normal is the way he reacted. I truly wish you the best. Hugs
January 27th, 2014 at 08:03pm