Thoughts of A FAT Girl - Comments

haha np! <3

@ IDon'tWantToDieAlone
Thank you so much

I can relate to this so much
Honey you put those words together so well and that was just simply beautiful.
And btw you are really pretty!

@ sindie synclayre
@ Goddess_Of_Mischief

Thanks, the both of ya!

This world needs more people like you, seriously! I admire you so much for this

You. are. my. hero!

@ louis tomlinson.
Thanks! :)
As are you!

This is absolutely great. I wish everybody, regardless of their weight, had a mentality like yours. You're stunning both inside and out.

@ OMFGitsBeckiie
@ cruciodarling.

Thanks guys. I used to be insecure myself and as I got older I learned what it's about!
You can be SUPPER skinny or SUPPER big! You are still beautiful. & I'll say this again 'Beauty is not about size!'
& yes! Men too!

This is perfect. I love this. It's so inspiring. I love how you embrace yourself and your body. You are absolutely beautiful and this is just

I love this. This is one of the most inspiring and uplifting thing I've ever read. I think everyone, not just women, but men too, who are uncomfortable or insecure of their weight or any flaw should read this. I too am no skinny minnie, though I too am comfortable with my weight any body. Sure, I wouldn't mind shedding a few pounds, but I would want to only do it for me, for my view of MY perfect body, and no one else. Though there is no such thing as perfection, I'd still find that the way my body structure and personality is happens to be my idea of perfection. Once again, I love this, and I admire that you were brave enough to put yourself out there and write this beautifully written piece.

@ Tholomew Plague
Thank you :)
I just want people to know that they are beautiful and they can embrace themselves and their bodies without having to worry about what others think. I start my journey towards health and fitness in the spring. But it's just so that I can live a long and healthy long life. Not because I want to be 'attractive' bc I already am attractive and comfortable in my own skin. A lot of people think that the only way to be attractive is to be thin. And that is sad. Beauty is not about size!

I love this. It's so great to see someone embracing their body, no matter what shape or size, you can be gorgeous! Thankgod someone gets it! You are my hero of the month

I think this blog was very well said and I agree 100%, you are beautiful! I'm a bigger girl too and whilst I am working on losing weight, I'm doing it for me... for my health, not because other people might think I'm unattractive. I'm comfortable in my skin, but I'm self-conscious at times. It's only natural, I believe.

Personally, I've been lucky to find a guy who loves me unconditionally and not only is attracted to my personality, but my figure also. He is a big part of the reason I feel comfortable in my own skin. I know it's probably not thought to be "healthy" and/or particularly "empowering" to have my self-esteem lifted by another person, but I don't care. Everyone likes/wants to be validated and that's what he does for me. He never let's me forget that I'm beautiful and I'm attractive and I really appreciate that about him, especially when most of my life, everyone else (aside from family of course) has said otherwise all because of my weight.

Having said this, I don't think any girl needs a man to validate her self worth and unique beauty. I believe you've gotta love yourself before you can expect anyone else to. Besides, one of the most attractive quality a woman can have is confidence, which I think is achieved by embracing what you got and being proud of who you are!

Yeah... my mom once said, if a guy likes someone just because she's skinny, then what'll happen once she gets fat? Will he dump her? You know... people should stop looking at all the exterior stuff.

@ charity_hope
Exactly!
You don't need a guy (and neither do I)
But eventually we will both find one who doesn't mind a few extra pounds and will love and appreciate us for all the good things that we have to offer.

I just hate seeing people who think they are worth nothing because they sit there and worry about what people think.

I agree with you. I'm a plus sized girl. I used to be very self-conscious about the way I look. And I kept saying that I'm ugly and all that stuff. But my friends always told me to shut it when I said those stuff about myself. They kept telling me again and again that I have a kind heart, a great personality, I have the ability to make people laugh and I'm an overall good person.

And over time, I just don't care anymore, you know. As long as I'm happy, then people who look down on me because of how much I weigh can just suck it. I don't care about them. I have my friends and family that love me for who I am. And as for now, I don't really care about guys. I'm happy being single and independent.