Boys Frustrate Me. - Comments

@ Noblesse
Thank you! I'm going to try and remember some of these!

Being extremely shy myself, I totally understand you. I have a hard time flirting but I kind of had to learn how to flirt in order to get my bf, so here is my theory of what works:

- LOTS OF SMILES. even the shy ones (my friends told me they find it really cute, specially if you blush as well)
- BODY LANGUAGE: nonverbal language is our main weapon while flirting. Making eye contact, running hands through your hair, smiles, making sure you have an open posture (crossed arms usually mean discomfort, so try not to do it near him, show him you're open and interested). Also, try to notice how he stands/acts near you or when he's looking at you.
- FRIENDLINESS: again, smiling back. Waving sometimes. Basically acknowleging his presence. Saying "hey" when you see him, etc.

All these things help, but don't forget to be yourself and stand up for yourself if needed (idk man, boys can be pretty stupid sometimes). Good luck!

:D No problem!! Although, it's one thing to know stuff, and another to apply it when the time comes!!! Good luck!!!

@ crooked
The comment above yours has some good advice! I'm going to try and use it, and hope I manage to look cute instead of stupid. Hehe.

@ Nefelibata
OMG! I didn't even think of it that way! Thank you so much! I'm going to try and remember this!

Well, I won't tell you what to do or what not to do, because it will ultimately be YOUR decision, what you do and don't do. But if you DO catch him looking at you, (and you are blushing) just smile, and stare back at him, it's okay to blush, most guys think blushing is charming! Or just keep sneaking little smiles his way, so he knows that you know, that he's staring at you. It's okay be be awkward, or embarrassed, because by now, he will probably have noticed, and if he's staring at you often, he probably thinks that it's cute! Also...if he does start talking to you, talk back to him, DON'T JUST STAND THERE!! Even if you sound like a blushing fool, if you want him to get close to you, you have to talk to him enough so that eventually you're comfortable around him, so start talking, and laughing more, smiles can easily win guys!

Ok I'm not quite helping cos I'm not exactly giving tips but YOU ARE ME. The thing with the texting but no dating interest AND the thing with the cute boy.

I don't know. I'm waiting for someone else to comment and tell us how to do it.