April 11th, 2014 at 10:13am
I haven't eaten chicken/game in about 6 months. I really miss the taste though. You know those chicken wraps you can get from KFC? Uuuugh.
My family is sort of supportive. They understand that I have pet chickens and this weird connection to birds. They eat a lot less chicken now because our meals are prepared as a family and we like to be inclusive of everyone, so they'll usually have chicken if I'm out.
But then sometimes they'll throw in "oh come on, you love chicken corn noodle soup. You can have a little sometimes." And I don't know how to explain how sick and saddened it would make me, knowing what I was eating.
Stay strong. As long as no one is force feeding you or hiding meat in your food then really, they have that right to be a pain about it. Just stand your ground politely.
I eventually want to become vegetarian but I'll have to learn how to cook first. There's so much you can't eat and some of those things come as a shock. Like cheese. And skittles. And many brands of vegetable soup.
I've never contemplated being a vegetarian because I know I'd fail at it and then feel bad about myself. I also have medical conditions that require that I eat meat. That being said, I don't eat a lot of it, and when I do, it's chicken breast or good quality steak. I can't eat lamb(unless it's a roast and good quality) because it makes me ill, but that's less about the meat and more about my body literally hating everything I put in it haha. While I eat meat, it's always with salad of some kind or veggies, and it's almost always in good proportions. My mum watches what my dad eats, so she just ends up doing the same with us.
I'm cool with people wanting to be vegetarian, and I often get a vegetarian meal as a "side dish."(My local Asian restaurant does an Asian Greens dish that's freaking amazing) All that being said, I cannot stand having my eating choices used to slander me, whether it's to call me an animal killer and tell me I'm going to burn in hell, or throwing blood at me and screaming "You're a disgusting murderer, kill yourself and save an animal!" Be a vegetarian, I'm not going to stop you, but don't pull that shit and slam me for not following the "true and only way!" I swear, some people make vegetarianism seem like it's a cult!
You're family will eventually come around, if not, live in the knowledge that they accept you for your choices but don't choose them for themselves. And if they try forcing meat on, just take it in your stride and say "No thanks." Rise above :)