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If I have learned anything over the past 14 months it is you need to do what makes you happy and be yourself! You can most certainly like both sexes! I was married to a guy (albeit the marriage sucked and I felt trapped and hated every second) and I had 2 kids...14 months ago I met my soulmate, the love of my life, my everything and her name is Stephanie! I was so afraid to tell my parents, so afraid of the reactions but they were good about it my dad said Rae it's 2013(this is when I told them) you can love who you want! I'm sorry your mom is going through denial right now but do not change for anyone! You get one life and it's your life and if you aren't happy than what was the point? Enjoy YOUR life the way you want to! I'm sorry you are going through this! If you ever need to talk I am here!

I don't know how or why your mother thinks you can't like girls and boys at the same time. I do. Lots of people do. It's a real thing. Don't change for her. Don't change for anyone. You are who you are, and if she doesn't like it - tough on her, then. One day I hope she grows up and is an actual adult about it.

This sounds like classic denial on your mothers part and I completely understand where she's coming from. I've recently dealt with a close family member thinking they were bi-sexual - this person is 16. And I was in denial about it. I felt they were too young to be classifying themselves, and especially too young to be getting into physical relationships with boys and girls. I told them straight to their face 'You're not bisexual. This is a phase.' Low and behold, 4 months later they admitted themselves it was a phase and had no idea what they were doing, and they can't believe they made the mistake of thinking they were bisexual. Anyway, that big rant aside.

You shouldn't exactly change for your mother but, what you should do is make sure you're sound with these feelings. It is a very, very confusing path trying to classify yourself. You're probably going to doubt yourself time and time again, and it'll always seem hard and what not.

All I can say to you is be patient with her. You must understand the mind frame. I don't think she wants to hurt you or that she hates you, I think she's scared herself that you're making these decisions all by yourself. I'm not sure how old you are, but mothers don't like to let go even though they'd have you think they do.

Gah, idk. My confusing rant probably confused you further!

Don't change for your mom (or anyone for that matter), do what makes you happy. There is nothing wrong with liking both boys and girls