May 16th, 2014 at 01:46am
I'm not gonna lie, it is possible to still get pregnant even when you take all the precautions, so it really won't hurt if you take a test. I don't suggest doing it at home, though, just in case it's found or something. Go to a friend's house or even a public restroom to do it. I'm sure you're not and I get that you're just worried about the what if's, but if you take a test at least you'll know then for sure and you can calm down.
As Queen In The North said, best to get yourself on the pill asap. I don't know how it works over there (if you need parental consent or what) but go to the school nurse or local family planning clinic and ask to be put on the pill. If you're still worried after that, continue to use condoms as well. It might feel better for the guy to go without... but it's not like he won't still get enjoyment with one, either.
Try not to let yourself get to caught up in your head about it and don't put yourself down for wanting to have sex, either. It's a natural part of life and you're still a teenager, so hormones don't help either. Just take precautions and you'll be okay
My fb and I stopped using condoms 5 times ago. And my period skips around anyway. So I go through a mini pregnancy scare a lot. And now, even though we haven't had sex since April 4, I'm still trying to reassure myself that I'm not pregnant, but because the period was the day after I still could be and blahblahblah and I haven't gotten one in May. But, its super likely its from stress cause I've been superstressed all month.
Don't worry, and if you're still concerned post period, take a pregnancy test.
Most importantly, for me and you. Get on birth control. It's so important to do that.