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  • ToxicMayson

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    @ Ali Cat
    Thanks so much for that it made me feel like 10 times better Arms

    @ La Notte Dei Demoni.
    Ok I'll keep that in mind and thank you Arms (: and I do too

    @ lady_enygma
    Okay, I will thank you so much! Arms
    July 30th, 2014 at 01:16am
  • lady_enygma

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    Hun, although i have no idea how it feels to have parents in such a situation, I do know how hard things get when you go through them alone. You have peopl here for you, you contact any of us should you need or want to okay?
    July 29th, 2014 at 10:49pm
  • La Notte Dei Demoni.

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    I'm here for you, too. If you ever need someone to talk to you can message me. You don't have to go through this alone at all, it's always good to get things off your chest. I hope you start feeling better soon.
    July 29th, 2014 at 04:05pm
  • Ali Cat

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    I'm so sorry you're feeling sad and unhappy and that this is happening to your family. My parents have been divorced since I was three, and I don't rember my mom at all because she left me, my sister, and two brothers with my dad when we were all young. I don't really remember anything about it, but sometimes I would think it was my fault or blame myself. Don't ever do that because it's not your fault, it will never be your fault. It's hard not to be sad because all of a sudden life is going to change in such a big way, but the best thing to think about is that both your parents will be happier. Things will change, but you'll find ways to deal with these new changes. Sometimes things like writing will help you get the through the rough spots, especially in the beginning. It's great that you talk with your mom and she's open and honest with you–my dad never told me what happened and he still hasn't 16 years later. Sometimes I wonder, but I have sense enough to know that whatever happened, this was the right decision for my, and my siblings', lives and safety. You're being very brave to have to go through this, and know you're not alone, and your parents love you. It'll be different, but it'll be okay. I'm always here if you need someone to talk to Hug
    July 29th, 2014 at 02:25pm