BDSM Advice || Nik Gets out of His Comfort Zone - Comments

As far as published books go... I honestly can't remember the titles of most of the ones I've had recommended to me. However, I do remember a book/movie (it's both) called The Secretary. I've never watched it but a lot of others in the kink community I know have recommended the book/movie (mostly the movie because reading is not well-loved anymore lol). At the same time, others have told me it's not a good representation of BDSM. But I've never watched or read it so... I dunno which side is more right lol. x) So you could try checking out The Secretary. ^.^

As far as online stories go... I've written a few BDSM stories but have only posted one (not on Mibba). Dominance is a femmeslash story featuring light BDSM between a D/S couple. It shows more of the emotional dynamics in a D/S relationship than it does explicit sex scenes (because BDSM is both emotional and physical; it's important to remember that. ^.^).

On Mibba, there's really only one story I would recommend. The story is Bound (although hasn't been updated recently sadly. ). It's a pretty good story in terms of dynamics for a BDSM relationship and I've quite enjoyed the story thus far. ^_^ I really don't read a lot of BDSM stories on Mibba since most of them share the problem 50 Shades has : they call abuse by BDSM. Many authors on here don't seem to know the line between BDSM and abuse. v.v So I might be looking through the comments to hopefully find some well-written and realistic BDSM fiction. >w<

I'd definitely be interested in reading your story if you wrote it. Can't say I'm part of the Loki fandom but male submissives are very rare in fictions. It would be nice to see a well-written story featuring a male submissive (since there are so many out there but they're so under-represented). :3

Hmmmmmm I would have to dig through my Tumblr archives and try to find all of the fics I had bookmarked before my laptop pooped and try to give you some reccs. :)

I practice BDSM and D/s in a collared/contracted setting, so I'd def be willing and happy to help in practical ways, if I'm unable to get my laptop back in gear within the next week or so.

Well...50 Shades is technically a Twilight fanfic.

I'm suuuure I've read some submissive Loki on THFrustration before. Take a look through the directory and you're sure to come across something BDSM. I haven't read much on there that wasn't absolutely fantastic.