Hair | Name Change - Comments

@ The Real Mitt Romney
Thanks!
Yeah, I'm going for Havelock, online at least.

Congrats on your new haircut~ you're rocking it already as for the name change, I say do it. Just like Blake, I don't go by my birth name (at least not online, I haven't grown the courage to tell my parents and friends yet). It feels awesomly refreshing to go by a new name If you decide to not go with Havelock, luck me know~ I like knowing everyone's name on here

@ Michael Westen
Thank you!

Yeah, I think I'll go for Havelock.

You look wonderful. I'm a little bit jealous.

I recently figured out a new name for myself and it really makes me smile. If you like Havelock, who cares what anyone else thinks. It's unique.

@ Xiaholic
That doesn't sound stupid at all. That actually sounds like my thought processes before finding about non-binary identities. I mean, I've been feeling uncomfortable with my boobs lately, and I ordered a chest binder that's really helping with that.

If you want to get your hair cut, I say go for it!

I don't know about names but you look lovely! You have a really kind smile and look in your eyes, and can I just say I am literally so excited rn because lately I've been feeling very...uncomfortable? With who I am vs how I appear lately, so I'm thinking about getting mine cut too! I was doing some research into this feeling of, well, not wanting to class myself as female or male, and then I discovered agender! I still don't know if that's me, don't know if I ever will tbh haha - sometimes I feel like it'll be an eternal life struggle to feel comfortable with myself. OTL All we can do is try, though, right?
I just really don't like the parts of us that make us man or woman, like I wish we never even had to have them somehow. It sounds weird and stupid, I know.

With names, I'd say definitely go for what you're most comfortable with.