I think the thing to remember is that it shouldn't matter what anyone thinks, I don't care - therefore I don't give them a label. I don't care if they don't understand me or what I do or anything, because it's not affecting them. :)
@ constant collapse. Sexuality is a contantly flowing thing, especially in our 20s. Right now, I identify as a pansexual, panromantic transgender man. Later I could identify as homosexual and panromantic and gender fluid.
Mostly, tags and labels are to make people understand it better, or just feel like you belong somewhere. I mostly just present myself non-binary and queer as fuck.
I'm actually in complete agreement with Proud Saiyan Warrior here. Anyone could change what I am at any second, however I guess Panromantic Demisexual is the closest to what I identify as. Thank you both for you're in depth comments :)
People struggle to understand it, but my way of thinking is; How can I say label myself as something specific, when at any point in time that could change based on who I met? I like to keep it all open and love a person based on who they are, not what they are or what I am. It's all shifting, I cannot tie myself down to a specific preference until I've seen everything ya'know?
@ constant collapse. Then you, my friend, may be panromantic demisexual. Which means you're romantically attracted to all genders yet you need to establish a deep emotional connection with someone to feel sexual attraction towards them. You could also be Ace. Or just Asexual. Or maybe lithromantic. I dunno.
@ Proud Saiyan Warrior Ha, that's really queer attitude. Like, "I don't care, I don't put a label on it, I just... do my thing."
Same here. i mean I've kinda been sexually attracted to someone, but it turned out I was only attracted to the idea of being with them. AHa you're welcome. and thank you.<3
@ Fantasy Writer Hina I don't really have much of a sexuality either. I've really only had a sexual attraction to one human being, so I don't really know what to call myself, because straight doesn't sound right. Romantically, I'm just attracted to everyone. People are just rad. YOU are just rad! Thanks for taking the time to comment and let me know you thought I did well researching. I really appreciate it!! <3
Tbh, I don't identify as any kind of sexuality (I'm starting to think I don't have one) but a lot of people have said I sounded like I'm aromantic and asexual, which is pretty much spot on for me (and the weird thing is that I write romance stories. ) but still, thank you for writing this. You did a great job at researching everything. :)
On the real though, I've never been so proud of anything I've ever written in my life. I spent a long time researching and making sure I knew exactly what I was talking about.
Amazing