Sometimes I Question Why I'm Friends With Certain People - Comments

  • nearly witches.

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    I managed to get rid of a few poisonous friends by doing that when I headed to uni. I definitely hope everything works out for the better. Arms
    July 8th, 2015 at 03:37pm
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    @ Albluerose
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    Thank you both Arms I think I'm just going to wait out the summer. At this point I'm just dealing with K because J and A are really close friends with her. Once college starts and we all go our separate ways, I think that'll be it for K and me.

    Thanks again for your words, though Arms
    July 7th, 2015 at 11:59pm
  • nearly witches.

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    Oh gosh, I feel this so bad. I used to have friends at school that didn't really understand that my parents don't earn the money to let me swan off to whatever I want to do. We used to have a theme park about a 20-minute drive from me called Loudon Castle (it's now closed because it was dangerous as hell but whatever) that wasn't even that expensive to get into, but taking into account the ticket price, the bus journey there (because my parents can't just drive me everywhere whenever I want), food and drink and then the bus journey back, I just couldn't afford it, not even with my wages from my job. One of my friends got really pissy at me when I said I couldn't afford it and started yelling about how I never wanted to do anything with them, but I don't think she understood that I so desperately did want to go, I just didn't have the money and neither did my parents.

    Honestly, I'd agree with Albluerose on this one. Sometimes you're best to just let people like that go. I hardly talk to the girls I hung around with in my final years of school that were so uncaring about my financial situation and now I've found better friends who actually understand (mainly because we're all uni students and none of us have money and are pretty much financially independent) and it's a lot less stressful for me.

    Whatever you decide to do, I hope everything works out for you. Arms
    July 6th, 2015 at 02:44pm
  • Albluerose

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    Why six flags though? Why not somewhere else, like rye? K knows the money situation so why not work with you and J? It's selfish. Then to say A is the one driving, did K even ask if he would? I bet not. Honey, the less friends you have, the less drama you deal with. I just recently let go of two people who claimed to be my best friend, yet only helped me once with packing. Hasn't hit me up to see how I'm doing, hasn't stopped by even though they are not even five minutes away. Always says "they aren't in the area" total bullshit. Plus their dating (i set them up) and I guess I'm not wanted. So they aren't wanted either. You're better off with out in my opinion. :)
    July 6th, 2015 at 07:43am