Let [Him] Go - Comments

@ finn collins.
Exactly. And aside from that autumn is my favorite season. There are so many things for couples to do: apple picking, pumpkin picking, hayrides, haunted houses, walking through the park when the leaves are changing color. I know I wouldn't have had time with him for any of that, but its sad to know that I don't have him and I don't have those things. I have a feeling we'll find our way back together at some point, but not for a long while. And it sucks because I just miss him. I missed him before we broke up, and I miss him now.
But I'm sure you understand that all too well.

That really is the worst. You don't even get the relief of something ending because it was crappy, you just feel worse because you didn't really want it to end.

Yeah, don't think about that now. Just work on getting over things and feeling better, so you can be happy

I feel the exact same, I kind of just said okay and stayed quiet and wanted to yell and beg but it would have made everything worse and I didn't want him to feel bad about doing what was best for him, you know? But yeah, it definitely sucks a lot.

@ finn collins.
Thanks <3. I hope you feel better too.
Its the worst when you end things with someone because you care about them and not because you don't. Its like being run over by a subway train.
Everyone seems to think that there's another chance for us, but I'm not willing to let myself lean into that idea. I'm afraid it'll just make it all worse right now.
I wanted to yell and fight for us, but I realized that wasn't fair, because he has worked so hard to get to where he is. So. Yeah.

Awe lovely. I'm going through the same thing right now, me and my (ex)boyfriend broke up last night and I knew it was coming for the last couple days. We had talked about it before but I didn't want to believe it would happen.

I didn't want to break up but I let him go too, because I would rather he be happy by himself and able to focus on school than be miserable in a relationship.

If you need to talk, I'm always here. I know how shitty it feels