October 25th, 2015 at 09:49pm
I know this is cliche, but some of the pros of college are all of the new experiences and the freedom you have to explore yourself and the things you want. If that means drunkenly kissing a whole bunch of boys, go for it! And if you feel like you're ready to "make your sexual debut" (I read that on twitter or tumblr a couple years ago and have loved it ever since, so I had to use it), do that too! Just be careful, make sure you actually want to and that you're comfortable; be in the right state of mind, and don't feel pressured to do anything you don't want to. Your first time (and any time after that) is something you don't want to be heavily intoxicated for--believe me.
Sounds like you're having a lot of fun, though!
I have been sober and not kissing boys since I've made this post lol. Probably won't be doing it much after this comment either, and everything is my choice. I feel fully in control of myself and I do NOT want to lose my virginity in any state but sober. Which will probably happen cause my "plan" (I guess) now is that if I'm gonna lose it, I'm gonna lose it with someone who I am already in a relationship with. I'm not pressured or really bothered by my virginity. As a matter of fact, I quite enjoy being one right now at this very moment lol. It's just at the time when I wrote this blog it seemed like the cosmos were pointing a light at my vagina and going "SHE'S A VIRGGGGGGIIIIN WORLD, GET AT HER." Cause, to be honest, having your mother ask if you're "feeling things down there" to having a frat guy just basically tell you "Everyone does something. Everyone sucks a dick. Go for it" in the same week...seemed like a message lol.
But right now my "sexual debut" is on an indefinite hold.
I rambled lol. But yeah.