Marina's Guide to Writing BDSM - Comments

  • stolenseason;

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    I absolutely love this. I have always messed around with BDSM in fics that I have written. Of course, none I have posted on here. They have been for my eyes only, but I have been thinking on changing that. You gave me the inspiration to do so. Thanks for posting this!
    February 26th, 2016 at 12:34am
  • hereticblood.

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    This blog is so helpful and interesting! I've always been fascinated by BDSM and its community, the different types of relationships. Thanks for this!
    February 24th, 2016 at 01:45am
  • CharmedLuna

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    This is perfect!
    February 23rd, 2016 at 01:07am
  • joelkanitz

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    YO, I read it. I like it. You did a good. (This is Eve, btw).
    February 23rd, 2016 at 12:44am
  • inactive;;;

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    Thank you so much for posting this. More times than not, I avoid reading BDSM based stories due to how unrealistic and abusive they are. Most people that write them are very uneducated or go by material that isn't correct (50 Shades of Gray for one).
    February 23rd, 2016 at 12:14am
  • Qhuinn.

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    This. This so, so, so much.
    (I've dallied a bit but nothing super hardcore)
    I'm actually plotting a BDSM scene for a Fic and I always like to read stories to get me motivated and give me ideas. I really am disappointed with how disgusting some people portray it. How unrealistic it is to the true thing. I read one where the guy was his Dom and his boyfriend the Sub and he was all "I like bondage and whips because I like making people bleed" and whipped the dude who was like "no stop I thought I did but changed my mind". No safe word, no checking of the bindings nothing.

    More people are writing it now because of SoG and it's really disappointing.
    February 22nd, 2016 at 07:37pm
  • crldnvrs

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    THANK GOODNESS FOR THIS.

    (I am in the BDSM community, as well. )

    THIS IS GREAT
    February 22nd, 2016 at 06:05pm