January 8th, 2017 at 05:15am
I say don't do anything that makes you uncomfortable. Especially if you're not interested in the guy. If the two of you don't connect over text, then you're not going to connect in person when there's even more pressure.
And it sounds to me like you don't even want to be in a relationship. Which is fine and completely understandable. That doesn't mean that you can't talk to guys, etc. But you don't have to meet up with this guy just because he's interested and because dating someone would make your parents happy. If he's not for you, then he's not for you. There's nothing you can do about that.
My advice would be not to meet up with him. Completely ignoring everything you said about how you feel about having a relationship, he's a little creepy. Why did he find you on every site? Why does he keep starting conversations with you? He obviously can't catch onto the fact that you're not interested.
If it's going no where, you should just block his number and move on. :)
And I'll have to agree with PoeticMess.
Especially since it makes you question whether it's good or not, your intuition and gut feeling is no, the it should stay no. I suggest completely ignoring and blocking him without saying anything or it might make things worse. But that's just my opinion.
It's best to find someone you're actually excited to see when you date. I hope all goes well, love