@ J. Parrish same! i don't think it would've went well either. idk, i just had this weird feeling whenever he texted me -- not excitement or anything positive. as of this moment (january 10th), he hasn't texted me and i erased the conversation from my phone.
omg, the same thing happened to me! i literally never send out any messages either, but i could easily get a ton if i'm there for a long time. it's kinda unnerving, tbh. and i feel ya, it's hard to "participate" when you done feel attractive. :(
I'm glad you didn't meet him, that probably wouldn't have went well. And hopefully when you talk to him, he won't flip out.
A lot of the guys I've encountered, whether just talking, become way too serious too quickly, then get upset when you reject them nicely. Sometimes I feel like reactivating my account, but I'm pretty sure I know the creeps that await. I could be on that site for a few hours, and I'll get a crap ton of messages. Whereas I don't even send out many. Because being shy and not thinking I'm attractive, so the guys won't. I don't get a lot of messages back when I do send them, either. S'ok though.
If you ever need advice in the future, you can always message me :)